Hard to be a soldier's son

First of all, your father is wrong! It doesn't matter if he has a high position or not, he is not a good soldier! A good father and a good soldier would know how to be disciplined, without being abusive! A drunk is not a good soldier! A good father would know how to care for his family better than that! And it doesn't matter what religion or what culture or race you are, nor what country you live in, it is still wrong! As far as what to do, that may be the most difficult thing that you will ever encounter! It looks like it is going to be up to you, to be the one that gets out and acquires what it takes to be a real man, and a real soldier to confront him and save the rest of your family! Many persons have had to do this, and it may be very hard, but these people never gave up, and had enough will in them to withstand severe consequences to overcome someone that was being abusive, or taking advantage of another human being! At this time I pray for you, that you may acquire the wisdom and the strength that I have learned, for I, also, cannot stand by, and let a "bully" abuse another person, without me stepping in and helping the innocent person! Someone has to do it !!!