your importance in the family...................

I am everything in my family. But then again, my family is very small. I am Priestess, Confident, Physician, Psychologist, Mediator, Accountant, ATM Machine, Head Chef, Receptionist, Party Planner, Organizer, Event Co-Ordinator, Lover, Friend, Mother Confessor and so many more. All this in addition to my job as a restaurant/bar promoter. Yikes! LOL What is your spot juhi06?

Well my dad is the bread winner of my family but my mom has the majority votes to be a prime spot lol , the voters are me and my brother only :D My brother resides in the second place where me and my dad are in the last place , my mom's pet is my brother so more importance to him than me and am least considered ! What about you juhi?

I am a daughter,cousin,granddaughter,niece. Sometimes I really feel high-pressured because I am supposed to take care of my seniors and support them when they get older.

Lol... I'm the MOM! I'm the one who gets to worry about everything, make sure the bills are paid, make sure the kids are okay and the boyfriend has everything he needs. I get to cook, clean and do laundry. I would probably call my position the keystone, as I'm the one who keeps everything from falling down on us all! But, that's what a MOM is!

My position in the family?---the daughter and mom. So I'm important to the family. when they are unhappy, I would comfort them; when they want to discuss something, I would be with them; When they want to talk, I talk with them. In short, when they need me, I'll be with them.

I've play a very important role in my own family because I am the mother of 3 kids. Aside for being a mother I am their friends. A shoulder to cry on of every one. They call mother as a light of home, yes that is true. If I'm absent or going to somewhere for overnight or days, the persons I left was in random and missing me and feeling of they don't know what to do if I'm away. And I play also a bank for them. So many roles and character. Most of them are dependent to me even my husband. He said how he gonna be handle every thing if I'm gone. It was hard to be far away that is why I never go abroad. We always want to be in each other arms if ever.

Well, my household isn't what you would call traditional. We are 3 single women living in a house. The eldest is the newest arrival. I'm second oldest - but the house was bought by my parents so I am probably the only one who really matters in the fuctioning of the household. I don't abuse that tho, and I will listen to the other roommates, but the new roomie doesn't say much, but she b*tchs sometimes. Well, honestly, I had to lay out to her the finances of the house, that if she were paying rent here she'd be facing $550 or $600. She wanted to pay a bill even tho we didn't ask her to. So she kind of faced our wrath when she hadn't payed that bill and we were threatened with disconnection of the services. The other roomie makes lots of suggestions and I take a lot of them, but there have been a few things I just didn't see working. So, I try to make the household more of a democracy but there are times when I have to say - we are going to do this or no, we aren't going to do that.

I am the supporter in the family because I do provide many supports not only to my family but also to my friends also.

bread winners do not usually seniors, because i'm the bread winner in the family but occupies the youngest slot of all the kids... and though i'm the one. i'm happy serving my family... thanks for posting... :-)

In my case I am the youngest in the family and I am living right now in my own with nothing to worry except for the food I eat. lol.

I am the soul of the family. but i take time to tell them that with out them i can never what i am.