Grumpy people in MyLot

usually, when i respond to sensitive discussion, i try to approach it in a neutral way. i keep telling that everyone has their own opinion, but its a lot better if you disagree or agree to other people by saying it in a nice way. :) for sensitive topics, i think you should start your response with "this is just my opinion" and end it with "no offense.. its just what i think".. or something like that! :)

Personally, I try and steer away from the discussions where people are tending to get a little more sensitive. I personally feel it is not worth it to upset someone in here just because you may not always agree. We should be allowed to have differences in here without all of the problems, but since people tend to take it wrong, I just tend to leave them usually alone. For me, myLot is a place to come post in and have Fun. If some do not see it like that leave it to them to decide as well.

I have found myself in the middle of these wars... I think when you get two people that are strong set on their opinions it can turn into a war... Mylot is about opinions though && the best thing you can do is ignore it the best way you can. Some take things more seriously then others. Sorry you had a hard time...

I usually steer away from those sensitive topics and when I do answer them, I tend to respond with very bland, generic answers as I've seen the wrath of enthusiasts. I will usually read a couple of the posts on a sensitive subjects and then decide whether or not to express an opinion. I don't want to offend anyonw and like you say, it should be fun. That's the reason I joined in the first place, to make new connections and have some fun. This is somewhere I come to relieve stress, not to get more. Have a great day and may all your postings be happy ones!

hi yuna, I know what discussion you are referring to coz my best friend responded to that discussion and I read that discussion too. I almost want to comment in that discussion but had a 2nd thought of doing so coz I might also add another hot comment which may lead in another misunderstanding of mylotters. When I joined here in mylot my purpose is to gain friends and to enjoy each topics and earning is an additional bonus for me but like you I was disappointed about that discussion but I understand that everybody has their own opinion and we should respect that, such those incidents like that cannot be avoided sometimes. Maybe the best thing we can do is not to be a part of that kind of discussion in order not to create another trouble.And as far as I know mylot deleted that discussion right away?nways, all we can do is just go on and enjoy this site. Happy mylotting!

I try not to respond to sensitive discussions too. And I also find myself guilty of not reading all of the responses but some are very lengthy and very many. I would try to steer clear of sensitive topics and at least scan through it to see if it is a heated conversation or really searching for facts before I decided to respond. Good Luck and Happy mylotting!

Yuna, I'm sorry, but if you are going to reply to or start sensitve discussions, you need to thicken your skin. Especially in matters of a certain religion that shall remain nameless. Yes, I found the discussion, and although I agree with what you said, you need to find the facts to fight back against the idiot that put you down. If you can't, you really should stick to the fluff topics. Please know, I'm not saying this against you. I don't know you. But I wouldn't want you to be hurt by something that you are unprepared, emotionally, to counter. Take care

You are suppose to read all the replies, but because mylot STILL have not changed it so I can view the whole discussion from my inbox..since they have not and don't know if they even will, I have many times said something that was the same as another reply..I haven't have someone be really rude about it, but I do say sometimes that if mylot would allow it, there would not be any or as much, duplicates... And if the subject was that sensitive, I can see wy you didn't read the other replies, you wanted to say what you believe and not what another person may say that would change your reply.. So next time that happens, say sorry and go on, I wouldn't even worry about it..

Honey I have not read all the responses here because this is about my opinion not some other persons. The thing is that you have to ignore other people and their attitudes just as you do in face to face life. They are only one persons opinion and may well be wrong. You should do what you feel is right. Express opinions that you think are right and forget the grumpy people. They can express their views as well if they choose. This place is about fun and do not let them put you off.

It is unfortunet but there are alot of grumpy people on mylot here. I am guilty that I have be grumpy on here before and came off on some people here as being rude. The thing to remember with the people being rude is that they maybe having a bad day and is just taking it out on mylot. Dont feel guilty just let it go. You are right mylot is suppost to be fun. People are suppost to come on here and socialize with other people and exchange information. People dont need to come on here taking things seriously. If you are going to do that then maybe you need to take a day off of mylot or something. I usually dont respond to sensitive topics. But, when I do I try to be careful. You need to be careful also next time you respond to a sensitive topic. If you think you will get involved in a war or something then its best not to respond.

as long as i can do, i always get away to that kind of sensitive topic, i don't want to be part of trouble here coz i came here for fun and earn few cents. Maybe people are sometimes gets grumpy here because sometimes mylot makes us stress lolz. Yes, of course, it's stressfull sometimes to be active and get participate here and people get it too seriously. Everytime i see senstive post i always get rid away of it or i always reply in a nice way, coz i have nothing to get when im in trouble, it only bothers me emotionally. Happy psoting.

well you are right mylot is the place where we are supposed to have fun and really enjoy the discussion we start and also enjoy responding to discussion started by others meanwhile keeping in mind that we should also respect others thoughts and try not to hurt their feelings i always try to be safe with such topics and never seriously scratch my head for such people, if they are rude. its their nature and we cant change it

MyLot is fun but at the same time there has tobe a serious element toit if the discusion is a serious one. It all depends on the topic. you can't take a seriously topic frivolously. Idon't know what the topic was that you were discussing, but if a topic requires serious thought,one havs to give it a lot of thought before responding.

it's not something new :) if you just search in forums, blogs, youtube comments etc you'll find lots and lots of people that are frustrated and curse each other... all you can say is is that "that's my opinion... if each the same with yours we should agree not argue about it" :)