What Do You Think Of A Woman Having A Relationship W/ A Married Man?
By sutan74
@sutan74 (1112)
Philippines
November 6, 2006 11:55am CST
A lot of people said, be open-minded, don’t be judgmental and stop acting holier than thou. Everyone commits mistake one way or another. So why condemn someone having an affair with a married man?
I wonder what the perspective of a mistress will be if she gets married and becomes a wife one day. When she is now at the other side of the fence and with a family to protect, will she simply accept that it’s payback time when her husband strays away?
7 responses
@dragonflyfli (5528)
• United States
7 Nov 06
well, i would think that if you put your self in the wife's shoes you would not like your self for doing that. sure i could have an affair with a hot married man. but if someone did that with my husband i would kill both of them .. it's just hipocritical i think.
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@rmuxagirl (7548)
• United States
7 Nov 06
I personally wouldn't have an affair with a married man, cause if I'm in the position with him (married to him) I wouldn't be able to trust him to stay true to me. It's not right to mess around with married people it only hurts everyone invovled.
@Sheila_Abram (1908)
• United States
6 Nov 06
It is wrong, wrong, wrong... I think what happens a lot of times is that; the people cheating on each other end up wanting a meaningful relationship later and they find out how it feels to be on the other end. That would not be acting holier then thou. God Bless
@dragonflyfli (5528)
• United States
7 Nov 06
i know why. if its a younger girl that is attracted to a married man its because she is seeking a father figure. and another thing is that when i see a man with his son or daughter spending time together fishing, or just walking, i get all fluttery inside. it is the sexyest thing in the world to me ... just knowing there are men out there that take responsibility for their families and spend time with their children. some women probablly take that to the next level. thats all i can think of.
@lia_88 (3)
• United States
28 Feb 07
An affair with a married person is wrong whether you are single or not. It is not only wrong from the perspective of hurting an innocent party but also from the perspective of hurting yourself. No real good can come out of an affair. If you find yourself in this situation, get help and get out of it for goodness sake. It will most likely be the biggest mistake of your life.
@sutan74 (1112)
• Philippines
1 Mar 07
Yes, but in our generation now those we know as sacred are not important or given a thought by people who is having an affair with married men. Women sometimes take it as a challenge to seduce, tempt or entice a married man. Oftentimes they think its LOVE, and would to anything to break up a family.
@kcbabez14 (967)
• United States
6 Nov 06
i don't think that it's right for a woman to mess with a married man as well as a man messing with a married woman or transverse! When you get married it's suppose to be scared and you are commited to that one person for the rest of your life.. that means no one else.. and if someone is messing around while married then they should of never got married in the first place.. if they are not married and messing with someone that is.. when they do get married they will eventually do it to there spouse or have continous thoughts that there spouse is doing it to them! Hope i could help
