do you have all 17 steps of the 'C' in our marriage or relationship?
By annjilena
@annjilena (5618)
United States
September 30, 2008 1:59am CST
which one of these 17 'C' steps in our marriage or relationships do we have 1.commitment 2.compliments 3.compromise 4.caring 5.change 6,comatibility 7.courtship 8.communication 9.coutesy 10.children 11.currency 12.cheerfulness 13.cherish 14.clan.15.courage 16.church 17.christ which one of these do you have in your marriage or relationship and what is the meaning of these words to you go on take your time take your pick.
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8 responses
@paulsy (1263)
• Philippines
30 Sep 08
Well, I can say that we definitely have a commitment to each other. No matter what kind of person we are, we love each other very much that our commitment to one another is 100%. We do compliment each other for good things that we do. We complement each other and that makes us compatible with each other. We have an open line of communication and we cherish and care for each other's feelings, and our children's feelings, too, so courtesy is important in our family. We go to church, and we both believe that Christ brought us together. We strongly believe that only He can put us apart.
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@GloomCookieLex (6073)
• United States
30 Sep 08
I have commitment, compromise, compatibility and communication.
I have no need whatsoever for children, clan, church or christ.
The rest are nice to have, but not necessary. They come an go with time, the don't make or break the relationship.
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@annjilena (5618)
• United States
1 Oct 08
hi gloomcookie ,i respect your opinion and you are entitle to your thoughts there are many i have to work on myself so you pick the ones that work for you and i hope it all come together for you thanks for your comment.
@winterose (39887)
• Canada
30 Sep 08
I have them all,
but children are from a previous marriage,
and christ is me and Yahweh is my man
no church, but synagogue yes
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@annjilena (5618)
• United States
1 Oct 08
praise god because we are going to need all of them in our marriage and relationship espeacially having lord god in our marriage helps our marriage runs smooth. we learn to care about each other and how to deal with our love one
@annjilena (5618)
• United States
1 Oct 08
at least you tried there is alway room for improvement for us all we just keep pusking on and hope and pray we can apply all these c,s to out relationship and our marriage.even to our everyday life it help us to be a better person.
@Galena (9110)
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30 Sep 08
Commitment
Compliments
Comprimise
Caring
Change
Compatibility
Courtship
Communication
Courtesy
Cheerfulness (although could do with more of this)
Cherish
Clan
Courage
those are the most important ones. the only one we lack that I'd like is Currency.
I have no need of Children, Church or Christ in my marriage
we haven't had the wedding yet, but the marriage is there already.
I don't want children, and I'm not a Christian.
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@annjilena (5618)
• United States
1 Oct 08
i suppose you pick the ones that work for you and everyone dont want children so i guess you are alright then. hi galens how are you ?
@torchablazed (3218)
• Philippines
30 Sep 08
good C's you have there annjilena ! Chances are there are couple who skip Number 10, mine was the case but still we go on with the 11th and so on. Good for you to have shared this one. Have a wonderful day to you !
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@annjilena (5618)
• United States
1 Oct 08
and there is always room for any of these c,s for us it,s only going to help our marriage and relationship better there are some ones i can work on we may not have all of them but as long as you keep trying to o get them all in your life and see how things will work for you and sometimes it hard but we can do it.
@danishcanadian (28953)
• Canada
1 Oct 08
My husband and I have everything except children. We are not interested in having children together, and that is our personal decision. He has some children from previous marriages, and we both love them (they are my step-children) but the two of us don't plan on having children together.
@annjilena (5618)
• United States
1 Oct 08
everyone don,t want kids these day and it,s ok people are see how some of these kids are these day and immediatly don,t want kids i can respect that.thats wonderful you have a good marriage and you have the c.s going on in your marriage thank you for your comment have a bless day.
@MrsRich723 (602)
• United States
1 Oct 08
My marriage has all 17 C's! Yeah. The majority of those are very important but number 17 is the most important to me. I love my husband and how caring and compromising he is but Christ is more important to me than any of that. Good post.
@annjilena (5618)
• United States
1 Oct 08
thats wonderful they say a family that prays together stays together and it seems you are very happy keep up the good work you are a lot of encouragement to all of us here.thank you for sharing
