mind games?

@dolcias (302)
Egypt
September 30, 2008 8:53am CST
do you play mind games in love?like making someone jealous,playing hard to get,playing disinterested while you are?stuff like that....or you do find that immature and prefer being straight and honest?
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5 responses
@underdogtoo (9579)
• Philippines
1 Oct 08
I hate mind games. There are people who constantly play them and their lives are very turbulent. They do not know the truth and seldom find satisfaction in life because everything is suspect. Cheers!!
@dolcias (302)
• Egypt
1 Oct 08
that's exactly what i think too
• Philippines
7 Oct 08
yeah i do that a lot of times. i must admit. i'm guilty of those stuff. lol. i don't like being straight and honest because people might get it wrong.
@cbreeze (1205)
• United States
30 Sep 08
I do not like mind games in love, but I have to admit that I have played them. I prefer to not give a person a reason to feel jealous and insecure. But if they play mind games with me and I have talked to them about it, made sure that they understood that I recognize it as mind games or atleast let them know how it makes me feel and they continue to do it then I will do it in return. Not all the time. But if the relationship has been going for a while and I really like the person and want it to work, I will do it so that when they experience the same pain that I do, I can explain to them that this is why I don't like these games. I will tell them that neither one of us have to experience this. I won't do these things if you don't. If the behavior continues, then rest assure you have a toxic relationship. It just isn't healthy.
@celticeagle (166761)
• Boise, Idaho
30 Sep 08
If i am in a serious relationship then i am upfront and honest. It is only fair to the other person. Communication is so very important. That helps to aliviate jealousy and feelings of insecurity.
@joy4you (641)
• India
2 Oct 08
I don't like mind games, I feel it is just another form of cheating. However a little bit of chivalry or flirting with your partner to spice up your relationship is fine.