How Many Pending Friend Requests Do you HAve?

I don't have any pending requests yet. I'm new here so I'm sure it will happen...

None. I hardly go thrugh some one's profile before accepting a frienship. Only on MyLot. But other places I always check and hardly add anyone other than someone whom I know. I think in My lot it doesn't matter who you are. Only thing is you can see more discussions.

Right now i see that I have 13 pending friend requests. That's only because I have not been here for a couple of days, and I don't have the internet at home, so I can't accept friend requests right away. I am going to go and accept them all, as soon as I am done responding to this discussion.

[i]Hi eihdra, Just this week, I decided to be more careful in adding friends..I used to approve right away without checking is these persons are responding my post and etc...But, yesterday, i got 5 requests which until are still pending, I want them to respond in my post and after that I will do the same! I have over 500 friends and only few of them are active and out of few active, only few of those few are in my post![/i]

Oh dear! I hope we are still friends. I was gone from Mylot for over a month. I've been so worried that Mylot friends have forgotten about me. But, then I came back and there they were! Mylot is truly wonderful.

Hi eihdra, if they don't accept me in a few days I just delete! I'm not going to beg someone to accept me as a friend. I have tried 2 times in some cases and the person just won't accept me so forget it! Their loss! There's no way I would leave anyone as a "pending" for anymore then a few days and even that is too long as far as I'm concerned. It does bother me that they don't want to accept me. I want to know why! But, like I said it is their loss. I have plenty of friends and I get friend requests all the time so why should I worry about it. Now I am saying the same to you. I think you should clear them all out and forget about them. How dare they not want you as their friend! Think about it that way instead! You are too good to be their friend. Now eihdra, go into those friends pending and hit DELETE!

none at this moment. if there is any friend's request, i accept all when i login to mylot. so generally when i am online here, none is left

I don't know exactly how many pending friend request I have, but a lot of these people just haven't logged on in awhile and I haven't been approved yet. But yet there are some people who I see on here all the time and I like their discussions and I send them a friend request because I would like to respond to some of there discussions when I have more time, but yet these people will not approve my request but yet they seem to have almost ever user on Mylot as a friend. That doesn't really make sense to me why they do this. I mean I don't understand net snobbery especially here on mylots because if you think about it, having more friends only help your reputation because the more friends you have on mylots the more responses you get on your topics. I have sent people who seem to have the exact interest as me and yet they will not add me as a friend..LOL.. It's so weird! And another strange thing I've noticed here on mylot. I have never received a friend request from a American, all of my friend request have been from people from other country's. Now what does this mean?...LOL

I don't know how many, if any, I have right now, as I haven't checked in a very long time, but the last time I checked I only had two and I just left them. But that was about a year ago. Most people that I have requested their friendship have answered me one way or another by now and most answer within a week, which I think is courtious. I am going to check the link as soon as I post this response and see if there are any there and if so I will delete them because they would have to be old as I haven't asked anyone in a very long time, to be my friend.

Thats the reason why i never ask for it because i don't want to be hurt and disappointed.But i do accept anybody who sent me a friend's request.Some probably just basing the discussion we started and how many discussion we had so far.Well, i just didn't know their real reason but for me i always welcome the new ones and i would be happy to be their friends.

I have a lot of Pending Friend Requests. Pending Friend Requests My oldest is a year. I do not know why they have not responded. maybe they've never logged on Mylot.