More then words ...

When I was younger, I was such a sucker for pretty words. Been thru a lot with men and now I really don't care about words at all. I get to know a man by how he lives his life, treats others, etc.

I think words and actions should be there in equal measure, but it also depends on the kind of person your partner is and also your partner should understand the kind of person you are. We all would like to show our partners how much we love them, as long as they understand, by whatever means then it should not be a problem. Sometimes just a simple look or smile at the right time can make your partner know that they are with that special person.

It depends on the relationship... Sometimes there's a passion level where words aren't worth much and all you want are actions... And then there's some that it's a deep love even if the passion's not there at the moment you still like expressing how you feel, but can't easily show it.

Words are over-used and often abused. I prefer to show my feelings by my actions. I am surprised that very few people go by this policy, excepting you, of course. A lot of grief could be avoided by allowing actions to be the best judge of what goes on inside. Cheers!!

I am a doubtful person when someone says nice words to me although it is like a great music in my ears. When someone says something sweet, I would really find a proof that what he/she said to me is true.

Well, I'd say both. Saying that you love a person maybe a bit overused but it definitely plays a big part in the relationship. They also say, actions speak louder than words. That's true and that's what a relationship is all about - loving and caring for one another both physically and emotionally. So I'd say both.

Actions definately speak a lot louder than words. My spouse could tell me that he loves until he's blue in the face and it wouldn't mean nearly as much to me if he didn't do those little things that SHOW me that he really does.