do you think actions speak louder then words ?

i have to say that your completely right about that. I'm the same way. just because some one says something i tend not to believe them unless their action say the same thing. actions do speak louder then words. people can tell you what you want to hear, but the action of some one only say one thing and there's no taking it back. i tend to base all my friendship and relationships one the whole concept of actions speak louder then words. in my past i have had friends and girlfriends tell me one thing and then do something different then what they said. for me my words are based on my actions. i don't say something unless i know i can complies with it or keep to my word. i don't see the point in saying something and then going back on your word.

I believe that actions speak way louder than words. You can tell me something all day long but if you do opposite of what you tell me, I'm going to believe what you do not what you say. I told my god-daughter that a few weeks ago because she kept sneaking in my room stealing my change. She said she didn't steal it but I kept finding the money on her. So, what am I going to believe. What she said or what she did? Obviously what she did. Her actions spoke louder than her words.

I totally agree with you. Words are cheap and it is so much easier to lie than to get into an uncomfortable situation by telling it the way you feel. That's why so many people agree to go somewhere they don't want to even though they know they are going to blow it off. It's just easier to say, "oh sure I'll be there, sounds good". But when babies are involved, sounds like someone is being unreasonable. Sounds like their feelings are hurt or something.