hi dear friends would you like to delete a part of your life ...................

@juhi06 (1850)
India
September 30, 2008 9:39pm CST
hi friends most of us plan ,dream about a safe passage thru life! but it is full of surprises. it flashes and the entire perspective of our plan and dreams get shattered!! did it ever happen with you? which such event destroyed your dream? which such event would you like to delete from your life`s history!!
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@lovenluck (1068)
• India
1 Oct 08
Ups and downs are part of our life. Some period are good and some are really tawdry but there is nothing in my life which i would like to delete it. Good moments are meant to be enjoyed and we need to learn from the bad phases of our lifes. If we don't have thes bad experience then how will we learn from it. So good or bad it's part of my life3 and i really enjoy it.
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@juhi06 (1850)
• India
1 Oct 08
you are right dear lovenluck!! if one looks back thee are times for which one is proud of and needs to learn from the mistakes!wonderful!! happy mylotting!!
• Lubbock, Texas
1 Oct 08
A "safe passage" just means you make it through all in one piece. It doesn't mean that you don't have things happen that look like disasters. When I was younger I used to wish I could erase some of my life, but with the years and some distance I know those things had to happen to make me the person I am today and also helped my children become the people they are. We all have those things in life that make us feel like we're crushed, but remember "what doesn't kill you makes you stronger", so get up and keep living. You'll be able to look back and see that something good came from disaster.
@juhi06 (1850)
• India
1 Oct 08
bold statement dear thebeaddoodler indeed!! we are standing on the platform built up by the events of the past!! happy mylotting!!
@cuttyrish (2667)
• United States
1 Oct 08
sometimes there are some of my memories that i like to forget or even delete..but it still keep coming back to me... as time passed by, i have learn to learn a lesson from those ups and downs that been happen in my life.. i would not opt to delete a part of my life, because these memories are what mold me to what i am today...
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@nana1944 (1364)
• United States
1 Oct 08
Life is truly what happens while waiting for your dream. I have had a lot of things happen and at the time I had a what-if attitude. Mow I realize that the things that happened are what made me the person I am today. I am not be the best but I sure as heck am not the worst. I just pick another dream and go for it.
@juhi06 (1850)
• India
1 Oct 08
hi dear nana1944 thanks for responding to my discussion!! absolutely right where we are today depends on the path we chose for ourselves yesterday!! go for your dreams!!
@maxilimian (3099)
• Indonesia
1 Oct 08
I want to delete the moments when i lost & leaved by someone precious for me The sad moments in my life!!
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@yosista (302)
• Canada
1 Oct 08
I think it happens to everyone, I would love to delete , things from my life, But yet agian, these mess ups it what helps up learn, as much as we dont want them there
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@ElicBxn (63643)
• United States
1 Oct 08
I'd like to delete middle school, maybe even most of high school.
@ElicBxn (63643)
• United States
1 Oct 08
I was an outsider and hence a target for mean people.
@juhi06 (1850)
• India
1 Oct 08
ok dear elicbxn some special reasons for that. in case you would like to share with us!! happy mylotting!!
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@kean28 (226)
• Philippines
1 Oct 08
aparently yes i wanted to delete some parts of my life..the ones that are very bad and the ones that hurt me so much...its just like if you can turn back the time question huh! anyway, i wanna revised my life again if i could..fix the mistake and try to do the things I'd never done that i should have done..
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• Philippines
1 Oct 08
what i really wants to delete from part of my life .. is the bad things that was going on with my life right now especially the worst things that affect us was my grandparents issue that is usually talk about and it will not die until they one of them will die.... I know partly its not good but I am one of the member of the family who was my head was hanging on the ceiling and i can't breath anymore if i usually heard all the same issue thy were still arguing..
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@airl1527 (355)
• China
1 Oct 08
Yes, i would like to delete parts of my life. I had several sad experiences when i was trying to find my true love. Some men hurt me badly so i would like to delete them from my mind and i hope nothing has happened.
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@sweetyethot (1737)
• China
1 Oct 08
most of my past time was not enjoying,and good time seems not so meaningful.i wasted lots of time in the past,and made many stupid mistakes.but anyhow i 'd rather keep these bad moments as my memories than delete them.i learn from these mistakes,and each time i grow more stronger after heart-broken events.i still have dreams.no matter how hard life is ,i will always move on !
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@dhalev78 (104)
• Philippines
2 Oct 08
hmmm... for me... i have nothing to delete in my life history. i like all what's hapenning... for me my life is wonderful and guided by his will. thanks to our GOD above...
@juhi06 (1850)
• India
4 Oct 08
ok good that you are thankful to GOD for his courtesies. and believe in HIM that HE will take care of his children better than any one else!!
@Leixa003 (867)
• Philippines
1 Oct 08
I have a couple of ups and down too but I don't know if I would like to delete the down side because it is part of who I am today. Who can ever tell that if those down sides were deleted that I would not be better today. I mean it could be worse. And besides we learn from those painful history and it makes us stronger and better and prepared for the future.
@juhi06 (1850)
• India
6 Oct 08
hi dear leixa003 i is impossible to delete any of your past as it will tentamount to erasing your part and your own self!! and as you say when you rewind your past and go thru what happened to you, will make you stronger!!
@bhanusb (5709)
• India
1 Oct 08
Yes I want to delete some happenings from my life; those were unwanted to me.At the same time I want to add many things in my life those I could not achieve in my life.These two things are unreahable to us. To make possible we have to restart our life. That can't be. Let us all be Hindus. In Hinduism rebirth is must for all hummanbeing. It is better to be satisfied which we have gained.
@shana123 (2095)
• India
2 Oct 08
I dont want anything to get erased , everything happend properly with the permission of GOD for me , i agree that i faced lot of quarrels in this 20 years of my whole life , but then those things are only to make me strong enough , you know what you will learn more from your bad situations , so if im erasing it , then i should forget those lessons , so i would like to continue with it in my whole life. :) cheer up always :) GOD BLESS
@subha12 (18441)
• India
1 Oct 08
May be i want to delete the current part of live for last 4 years. nothing is going my way. I sometime think that the whole world is conspiring against me. it makes me sad.
@juhi06 (1850)
• India
1 Oct 08
what you should delete is the negativity in your mind!! you will feel better if you smile at the worlds wrong doings against you!! because you will also have your day!!
@ketybhagat (4123)
• India
1 Oct 08
The good and bad of life are like two sides of the same coin. One cannot be there without the other. When times are good, we thank God and enjoy them. bad times means a time for introspection and learning from them. If we dont have the bad side of life, how then will we enjoy and appreciate the good part of it. So, Id rather have both, the good in more quantities than the bad.
@juhi06 (1850)
• India
1 Oct 08
yes dear ketybhagat well said!! the coin will not be full without the two sides!!
@ch88ss (2271)
• United States
2 Oct 08
I like to delete some part of my life definitely for sure. I would not even think twice if I had the opportunity to delete it. Yes these events change my life forever, and shattered my dreams for ever too. Now tell me where I can sign up for the deletion authorization :)
@ganda8831 (816)
• Philippines
1 Oct 08
If there's one thing that i want to delete from my life it's something that happened quite recently. My boyfriend of three years cheated on me and got another girl pregnant. We're no longer together because of that. It has given me so much pain and until now i still cry myself to sleep whenever i think of him. I want to delete the memory of him from my mind so that i can be happy again.
@juhi06 (1850)
• India
1 Oct 08
yes dear ganda8831 it is gross cheating!! he deserves to be thrown out of your mind!! but why should you cry now? i know it is painful but then you should stand up boldly against that cheat and never even once shed a tear !! you will have good times ahead!! perhaps he was not worth the person that you are!! cheer up!!
@alankor (478)
• Singapore
1 Oct 08
i would like to delete all the sad and terrible periods of time i have to go through in my life.my life would be much more happier without them.come to think of it, actually i don't want to delete them.these events are what makes me stronger and more confident to face my future.oh what is life?it it a journey across the universe?does it ever ends?
@juhi06 (1850)
• India
6 Oct 08
hi dear alankor, i respect your thoughts . all negatives push you to do positive things in your life and the actions that follow will take you towards your goal and success!! happy mylotting!!