How do I do anything for myself??

I'm a mother of six ranging in age from 14 to 1. My husband travels for work, and I also work full-time outside of the home. Honestly, you're not going to get time for yourself unless you make it a priority. Take advantage of every opportunity you can. I once got off work early, but left my kids with the sitter so I could go see a movie by myself. It was so nice to not have to share my popcorn or drink, or miss most of the movie because I was in the bathroom with a kid. I also got to see something that wasn't created by Disney. If you can afford it, find a teenager in your community (or your family) who would like to make some extra money babysitting. You don't have to be gone for long. Even an hour a week is more than it sounds like you have now. Just going for a walk by yourself to clear your head is heavenly, I know. I also work outside of the home just for the chance to talk to "big people". After paying a babysitter, I don't make much, but my sanity is worth it. Try a part time job, doing something you love, and enjoy being someone other that "mommy". But also remember, these years go by fast, and I wish my 14 year old would want to spend more time with me. I miss the snuggles and hugs I used to get all the time from him. Now it's not "cool" to even be seen with mom. Enjoy the attention while you have it!

Darlin',something as small as half a day at a spa can save your sanity and renew your self-esteem. Even a leisurely cup of coffee and a magazine at a little coffee shop can do wondera. You need a reliable babysitter! I don't know if it's the same where you live, but there are several spas and beauty shops that supply babysitting services in another section of the building, so you can be available in a heartbeat, but alone for a little while to cherish yourself. Surely this can't be the only area where that's common. Maybe a workout or two would do it -- almost all women's gyms provide babysitting services. Try a bunch of phone calls to track down such places, and be aware that, if you don't take care of yourself, there won't be much left for anyone else.

sweetpeasmom this is the time to talk with your husband to make a little time just for you while he takes over care of your son and chores for awhile. If he cannot do this then talk to your closest relative or best friend, and arrange some time for yourself with the other person helping out with your child and whatever chores you need help with. Every young mom needs some me time for sure.