Nope, Ain't Gonna Do It

Aw! Now don't give up on us yet! Make sure you are adding lots of friends to your friends list and respond to their discussions. If they are good friends they will respond to yours as well. Also keep in mind that if a lot of people are starting new discussions it is really easy to have yours just get moved down the que so quickly that people just miss it. Keep your chin up and get busy thinking up some great conversation starters!

bluerubymoon53 I am going to get on the ball, and surprise you by answering your discussions so you will have some responses. I was new once too and had the same problems. It makes it hard to be a newbie and not have anyone respond to your discussions, just keep at it and get your name noticed and the replies will come, I promise you.

Well I need to go find that lonely old discussion and visit it. Be right back. lol

Blue..I don't get any notifications about your discussions either..so I'll have to try harder about checking friends started discussions..and here i am..but i did just get home from work.. huggs

Hmmmm, I didn't find any of yours that didn't have at least one response. But, don't feel so bad, blue, most of my discussions are kind of dumb, and for the most part, don't get too many responses, either. I just keep responding to other discussions, until I come up with another brilliant dumb idea.*LOL*

Maybe its just a curse and someone has to breake it. So here I am breaking it lol Im sure you'll get respondes now :)

Collect more friends to spread your discussions more into the myLot community. I have been here over 2 years and have well over 400 friends. Yet at times I get the same thing with very few responses to my discussions. There are a lot of members here who only respond as well. Then there are also those that only start ones and not respond. Each member does their myLotting how they feel comfortable. So I say do what you feel good doing here. It's a site to have fun afterall. I am sending a friends request your way as well. Hope that you accept. Have a great day/evening. HAPPY POSTINGS FROM GRANDPA BOB !!~

I hear ya, I've had those times as well, and also if I have started a discussion, I don't get a lot of responses. I spend more time reading other peoples discussions sometimes.

Good. It's always good to slow down and think back on your mistakes. You can browse around look at other discussions which have got a lot number of responses and see if you could modify your discussion titles and attract more people to respond to your discussions. bourne

don't feel bad {{bluerubymoon}}, I feel that way too sometime... during the daytime, I can't think of squat to write about, when I go to bed I have a thousand ideas, get up the next day..and POOF! THEY ARE ALL GONE!! LOL!

Its pretty normal that some discussion has no responses but still keep on trying. I have some discussion with few response but still it didnt stop me from posting new topic. Then eventually people starts sharing there views on some of the topic i posted. Just look for interesting topic that will make members participate on your discussion.

Apparently one day Sir Winston Churchill was invited to give a graduation speech or something like that, and his speech was just a few words. They have inspired me and I hope they'll do the same for you. He said and this was all he said: "Never, never quit!" I like it. I live by it!

Looks like you have found a winner. You can never tell what someone will or won't respond to. But don't you enjoy it when they do?

wow. look at you now! anyway here's one more for you. i hope this response helps :) if you haven't noticed yet i am a newbie here and was somewhat at a loss on what kind of discussion i could share here in mylot. i was starting to lose hope, and then i saw your topic. wow. it just gave me a lot of inspiration and idea. thank you! and i am returning the favor by responding to your discussion! happy mylotting!

I've responded to several of yours so I'm glad you didn't actually quit posting them. Some times we get a little stalled but don't give up. [b]~~MY OWN PEACE WITHIN~~ **STAND STRONG AND BELIEVE IN YOURSELF** [/b]

I can completely understand that silly questions that get alot of responses. Some discussions I start they are good ones only like 2 or 3 will respond or none at all. Here you go, you've got another response.

what is the difference in money we make when we start a new discussion or respond to others? I am new to mylot, your suggestions would be very much helpful.