perfect girl? perfect guy?
By cet1987
@cet1987 (209)
Malaysia
6 responses
@HeatherLeigh04 (11)
• United States
2 Oct 08
What does "perfect" really mean? One of the definitions in the Merriam-Webster dictionary defines perfect as "being entirely without fault or defect". If that is the case, then I would not want to be with someone who is perfect, because that would just be boring. A person's flaws and imperfections are what makes them who they are.
Another definition for perfect is "satisfying all requirements". That is the definition that I would use when I say that my boyfriend is "perfect". He satisfies all of my requirements. Of course, he is not perfect according to the first definition because he does have faults. But that's what I love about him!
So to answer the question "can the perfect person really exist?" I would have to say "yes". Because if perfect means "satisfying all requirements", then I have found the perfect man for me!
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@cet1987 (209)
• Malaysia
3 Oct 08
yes..you are right.. there are no body perfect if we refer to your first definition because everyone have fault. that is why we were called 'human' because we are not perfect at all. if we are all perfect according to your first definition, then we should be called 'GOD'-our creator right? the only perfect in this world is "GOD". I think your second definition "satisfying all requirements" would be the most suitable one. it is also hard to find these kind of person whom satisfying all the requirements needed.Hopefully one day i will find my 'mrs perfect'.
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@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
2 Oct 08
I don't think so their is a perfect person in this world or a perfect partner. I just believe that if it was really meant for you, it will just happen. Love is accepting even mistakes and faults or everything about the person. What count's alot is loving you for what you are. Have a nice day!
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@otomen (11)
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3 Oct 08
honestly, this is my opinion.. i don't think perfect girl or perfect guy really exist in this world.. what it takes to make someone perfect? the answer is nothing you can do about it. Just be yourself rather than trying to be a perfect guy. if you try to be a perfect guy, how long you can maintain yourself as a perfectionist? seriously my friend, my advice to you is just be yourself. it doesn't matter if you are not perfect because there are no body perfect in this world. i am afraid you will be a 'slave' to yourself. cheer up.
@cet1987 (209)
• Malaysia
3 Oct 08
thanks for giving some opinions and advices. i can conclude here there are no body perfect in this world. one should never try to be someone else just to achieve perfect level or else he will be a fake.don't worry otomen, i won't be a slave to myself because i love GOD and religion more than my love to humans. if you love humans, humans will not last forever..but if you love GOD, GOD never disappear even for one second.
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