do you want to know what your friends don't like about you?

Philippines
October 1, 2008 9:10pm CST
personally i do,and i try hard to do the same to my friends. if there's something that i do not agree with them or don't like about them, i know i have to tell them personally. i think it would be better that they hear it from me and not from the others. i really don't like the idea of back-stabbing or things like that. one day i caught a friend saying something bad about me, she didn't know i was there. i was really shocked to hear it from her and at first i tried hard to convince myself that she didn't mean anything wrong and maybe just because i don't have anything against her (maybe because i'm also the type of person who trusts my friends too much and as long as they don't do anything bad to me, i never doubt them)but i was then relieved because my other friend tried to defend me even if she too doesn't know i was there. that way i knew who my true friend was. but still, if the other friend told me personally, i wouldn't feel as bad as how i felt towards her.
3 responses
• Australia
2 Oct 08
Usually I do as I want to change what they don't like. But I don't usually tell what I don't like about them.
• Philippines
2 Oct 08
yeah! i really wanted to know what my friends don't like about me. there was this one summer i asked my friend what does she do not like about me and told her not to worry because i will not get angry. then she told me that i am too demanding and it really irritates her. i got angry but ofcourse i kept it on my own, by then every time i have wanted something to do, i make on my own now.
• Italy
2 Oct 08
yes i wanna know..so i can know if they really know me or not..and even if i know me too!