Is the father of your child stepping up to his responsibility?
By monika71801
@monika71801 (240)
United States
4 responses
@monika71801 (240)
• United States
6 Nov 06
Actually, I would prefer both! A lot of times even though you may be together, the relationship that the father has with the child could be better.
@monika71801 (240)
• United States
6 Nov 06
That is wonderful! Great rules to follow! Congratulations on the upcoming anniversary!
@jmacki1 (51)
• United States
6 Nov 06
I don't really have a method. I would not accept my husband not being a father. My husband knows that. I have a very strong personality and have no problem telling my DH exactly what I expect and that he better do what I expect or there will be heck to pay.
But I have a wonderful DH that 100% believes that I am the anchor in this family, I am the one that makes everything run smooth, and he follows the motto, as long as momma is happy, everyone is happy.
And what I expect is not much:
Be a Father and a husband first
Help me around the housem if I get behind
That there are not woman or man chores, I mow, just like he will do the laundry
Don't lie to me
Don't spend money without talking to me first, we're broke
That is really about all. We've been happily married 6 years on Nov 10th:)
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@monika71801 (240)
• United States
6 Nov 06
As long as you have a healthy relationship & she has a dependable father figure, it doesn't matter whether it is the biological or not! Hope all goes well. Be blessed!
@magikrose (5429)
• United States
6 Nov 06
Nope they are not. I cant wait till it catches up to both of them.
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