Do you find difficulty in saying "I Love you" to your boyfriend/husband?
By currykai
@currykai (427)
Malaysia
October 2, 2008 9:09am CST
I have difficulty in saying I Love You to my boyfriend although he always mentioned that to me. I am not a very passionate person as compare to my boyfriend and I am quite quiet and not very open when it comes to verbal. However, I do write letters/sms/email to him I Love You but I just find it hard to say it.
I wonder why. Do you have such difficulty like me?
3 responses
@deserve40 (1656)
• India
2 Oct 08
If he has already mentioned you that he loves you, then I do not think that you should find difficulty in saying "I love you". It is natural for some people that they are not able to express their feeling in words so easily.
However, you friend has already showed his love for you and now it is your turn to say the same thing to him. I had not found such difficulty in my time. If you feel so, you can tell him so by sending a simple email and say even many more things from your heart.
@jstmarfz (1498)
• United States
2 Oct 08
My husband and I never find it difficult saying that three words to each other. It was even countless for us saying I love you everyday. It is so easy to say I love you to him because I really meant what I said to him. Even we are living in the same roof, sometimes we still send emails. I don't know why but I find it sweet. It is not because that we are married we have to stop what we always do when we were stil gf-bf. Everything gets sweeter as days pass by in our relationship. Maybe because the love and happiness is within us and in our relationship.
@grammasnook (1871)
• United States
2 Oct 08
Darlin when you really love someone it should not be a difficult task to tell them this. You may doubt your feelings and saying it doesnt sound right to you. Writing it down is so much easier than saying it. Dig deep inside and find out your true feelings would be my suggestion.