It's hard to trust again ,isn't it?

well something like that happend to me. they didn't cheat but they do even more damage. the left me hanging, i though they will be with me through hard and good days but they were not there when i hit a storm. i was so alone at that time. i only have myself and until now i can't forgive them.

hi sunilkonda, is really bad and sad to hear that situation happened to anyone. Relationship is not build a day or two, is takes long time and each party is responsible for that. And one of the key success factor is trust. As you mentioned, once it breaks, it will be very difficult to built that again. Some even not able to recover regardless whatever reasons. So when we have a great and good friendship relationship, better take good care of that.

I've experienced that once and you're right pal, it really hurts. You have given your full trust on that person only to find that he/she have betrayed you..the friendship will really be affected..it's hard to trust somebody then who have betrayed u once...;(

I think almost every friendship goes through this type of thing at some point in time. I have had this happen and found it extremely hard to trust them again. I do now but it took a long time to get back to this point.

In my case it doesnt happen with my friends but happens with the ex boyfriends. Yes, you're right to say that once trust is broken, it's hard to bring it back again. The relationship then suffers and eventually it vanishes. There will always be times that you will doubt your friend or your partner. You wouldnt know if he's telling the truth or just lying to you. It's really very painful and hard.

I'm pretty good at forgiving. I don't think there are many things in this world worth throwing away a friendship, however I wont make the same mistakes over again. If a friend doesn't pay a debt, I wont loan them money. If a friend stills a boyfriend, I don't introduce them to my partner. ect. ect.

Indeed, it's hard to trust a friend that disappointed you. It happened to me when I was Senior high school. The one that I consider as my bestfriend betray me behind my back oout of jealousy. She spread what I have told her. And then it took 2 years for me to forgive her and give her another chance. Maybe she was really born as a jealous person, she failed me again. I was very mad at her to the point I never consider her as my friend until now.