What do you do with unwanted hair?

I think if I had any facial hair I would pluck it out but as for my legs and underarms I shave three times a week. I just cant stand to have hair on my legs and it itches if it get past three or four days old. Hugs, Tianna

Oh yeah, I forgot to say, my sister and I shaved our legs right after. We were so mortified.

NO! don't shave it! That will only make it come back thicker and darker. If she wants to get rid of unwanted hair, then she should wax it. Shaving her legs is fine, but not on her face. She could try plucking but that would take forever if it's a large area. Waxing can be a bit painful until you get used to it, but its the easiest way to rid yourself of it. She can get it done professionally or buy a kit that they sell in stores. She can also try bleaching it. They have bleaching kits that will turn the hair blonde so it's not so noticable.

I suppose it would depend on where the hair is. As you have decribed, it appears that the hair is growing on the woman's face like a mustache. I would have her take a look in a magnified mirror, and then in a regular mirror. Let her know that although she can see it clearly in the magnified mirror, she must get up close to see it in the other regular mirror. I would then say that if she wished to get rid of it, she can, a wax would do, but it would also make it grow back thicker, even if it did take longer. It would be money wasted. Bumps can appear with shaving, as well as knicks and cuts. Even red marks or bumps can appear with a wax job, so I would make her feel confident even though she feels as if she's ugly. Women come in all shapes and sizes, beauty of the outside is becoming more common, but men appear to respect women who respect themsfel.

They have plenty of options like laser removal, nair, shaving, waxing and plucking. It's no impossible to do so but if the hair bothers you then remove it. I have some girl friends that are the ultimate valley girls who see a hair and say, "oh my god... ew!" I personally hate people that act that way. I don't mind it. It's natural and it's normal. If I someday started to form a mustache, of course I would do something about it but leg hair or arm hair. It's ridiculous to worry about it so much.

No shaving! Apply a hair removing cream instead. Here's my discussion about it. It's my personal review of the product I use.

When I was young and naive, my sister and I went to the US. We went to Universal Studios and we saw two nice looking guys our age there. Our mom allowed them to accompany us. It's a good thing I was wearing jeans, coz my sister was wearing a skirt and the two guys were whispering about her unshaven legs! I told my sister and we left them afterwards. Grrr....