my sister is pregnant worst we were not able to see him with a guy!!
@iceberry_kaye (199)
Philippines
October 2, 2008 11:56pm CST
we were all worried because my sister whose 20 is pregnant and the worst thing is we haven't seen him with a boyfriend.. she's a partly girl she loves going out with friends, but we did not expect that this would happend.. what would i do.. I really want to know the father and i want to help my sister.. i'am so damn depressed!
5 responses
@arnoldream (1332)
• Philippines
3 Oct 08
getting pregnant this day is very common among teens and young adult specially among the girls who are party goers..sad thing that it sometimes happen and so with your sister..thats depressing but there's nothing you can do about it you just cant undo it like a mistake in computer. the only option to mitigate the situation is to know the man responsible and make him to take the weight of their actions,otherwise your sister will end up a single mom...you are given now a limited option to take and knowing the man and make him take the responsibility is the immediate solution...the hardest is you have to support your sister through this process if there are no one to cast and throw the the stone...
@iceberry_kaye (199)
• Philippines
3 Oct 08
ohh my god.. we never so her with the man! or with a boyfriend.. and suddenly she got pregnant!! and how could i know who the father is? if she wont tell me.. i'am so afraid of my father.
@iceberry_kaye (199)
• Philippines
7 Oct 08
i think my sistr does not know!! Honestly my sister is weird she dont have a stable boyfriend. we saw him with diffrent guys everytime she goes partying.. that's why we were so worried,,
@chengbeb (285)
• Philippines
3 Oct 08
Ask yourself this...what is more important to you...is it to know who the father is or how is your sister hanging on this problem? Ask your sister what she feels. Is it important to her to have her child's father beside her or is she better off alone with her family supporting her. You don't need to be depressed. What you need to do is to be there for her every step of the way. Show her that you love her and that you accept her for whatever it is that has happened to her. Show her that you're someone she can rely on.
@iceberry_kaye (199)
• Philippines
3 Oct 08
yes that's what i'am doing, but i just cant image what would my father do to her.. that the other thing that i'am worried of..i'am always there to support her. but what if she still dont trust me or she wont cooperate and she will kill the baby!!
@chengbeb (285)
• Philippines
3 Oct 08
She may not confide in you the way you would want her to but you could always show her or make her feel that you care. And that you are really there for her. With regard to your father there's no easy way out. He'll get mad, yes that's true and you can't stop that from happening. Just respect him and try to ease the pain that your sister will feel.
@heaven11 (1159)
• United States
3 Oct 08
Hi iceberry_kaye
I say give your sister some time when it comes to the father shell prolly come around but the more pressured she feels the more she may hide she may just feel like her family wont approve of him.
As for the partying most people change when they are pregant all you can do is hope that she will she what she needs to and has to do
With your support Iam sure shell chose the right path
@iceberry_kaye (199)
• Philippines
7 Oct 08
yes!! i wish, I hope and i pray.. I'am really not okey nowadays.
@benita2008 (102)
• China
4 Oct 08
What a pity! But what you can do to help your sister, in my opinion, is not to raise a query about who's the father. Just comfort her, go through it with her and never dislike and hate her. She's so young and you, too. Maybe it's better to tell your parents. They are adults and experienced to give better advice, but not if your parents are the ones who get easily impatient and irritated.
@iceberry_kaye (199)
• Philippines
7 Oct 08
yeah!! maybe that's what i'am going to do for now beacuse i could hardly tel my parents about that..
