isn't it unfair?

lol its not our choice to be courted.. having a lot of suitors doesn't mean that the girl like them all. hehe i think its unfair for the girls because guys have choice who they want to love while girls will only have choice from their suitors.

Well biologically speaking men are designed to pursue females and females are designed to choose who they want to be with. That is why I think nature has made it that way. So in conclusion it is not unfair at all since males are very much versatile in the way we were designed that women when hooked up with a guy tend to be loyal and loving to his partner that is if she is treated properly by his male counterpart.

hello emogummy,I respect your point of view. Now the way i look at it, is that, women did not choose a man to court them men choose them, we cannot pick several men to court us then choose one. We can only express our feeling to the person that we like by showing them that we like them but that's it. Now, men the way they show there feeling to the women is different because they can court a women and they can prove it to them by there constant positive approach. So, if your going to court as many women you want, how did you manage to prove to a women that your serious to them yet infact you still keep searching. That's why, they dump a men. That's only my point of view, every one is different and I respect it. Happy mylotting.