im hurt? what should I do?
By ZIGGY22
@ZIGGY22 (69)
Philippines
October 3, 2008 11:56am CST
loving a person who you don't know if he has feelings for you is really hard.
I have fallen madly in love with this guy and he said that he is not ready to commit yet.
Now, I am starting to feel neglected and and fully ignored. I have done more than what I should do but it seems that everything Im doing just keeps on hurting me and keep pushing me down a bottomless pit.
now im here in his room, meddling with things i don't even know if true. He is outside talking with someone over his cellphone...i don't even know who that person is or if he is a threat to what I want to win over...my love's heart.
I know we don't have any commitments with each other and that its his prerogative to keep his doors open for other guys. but i think this is just becoming too much and I am already at the end of my ropes for this thing...I am just holding on but I am not hoping for anything in return...
I always thought...why me? I have always been good to people that I love but why do i keep on reaping regrets and fantasy after doing more that what is required for a suitor to do?I am deeply saddened by this and I don't know how to pour out my feelings that's why i decided to write it down on a blog...
can anyone give me any words of encouragements or advice as to what I have to do?I would really appreciate any kind of words and advice from you guys.
thank you so much mylotters...enjoy mylotting always...:)
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6 responses
@sray81 (50)
• United States
6 Oct 08
i would evaluate your feelings and if you really love him let him konw, he may feel the same way you do but you must perpare for him to say he doesn't love you back be honest with yourself andthis person if it is that he is not ready to commit give him time and space. there are so many things you can do but be honest!
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@rainmark (4302)
•
3 Oct 08
I had been hurt before and i know what i feels like, it's not really easy to face that heart aches and frustrations, you feel depress, and feel neglected and very awful. But always think of yourself, love yourself, don't be look so mesirable because you hurt because the person you love is not ready to commit.You enter on that situation, you must get ready yourself for any heartaches. Fight it, ignore it, and be strong and always have a hope that one day he will going to propose to you. One thing i can say, don't let him pushing you down, stand up, chin up and and show to him that you are strong and one day he will beg for your love. Happy posting.
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@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
8 Oct 08
Hello ziggy22 I think it's better to feel love then not have felt love at all. It's just only you who can answer all the pains your having right now. Will you love someone who can't reciprocate your love? How long can you wait? Is this what you really want? Love is your blinded with your feelings and emotions. You feel the worst pains and hurts but that is love. It makes as tough in this world to feel pains and expecting nothing. Life is a journey As long as we feel love their wont be any regrets. We treasure the good moments, and we do it voluntarily even not asking in return. Life is so simple it's just us who wants it to be complicated. We make our own life and their is nothing permanent in this world just yourself. What is important we make our own life, we make our own choices even it's a mistake. Have a nice morning!
@bamakelly (5191)
• United States
6 Oct 08
It is never easy being on the end of one of these hurtful things in life. It doesn't always happen naturally with someone that you are interested in. Sometimes feelings are just not returned the way you would like them to be.
You have your whole life ahead of you and people come and go. You never know, the right person for you could be right around the corner when you are not looking. I think that getting hurt is unfortunately a part of life. We all move on somehow. And you will too. Best of luck!
@shernette84 (46)
• United States
16 Oct 08
Believe me when I say do not waste your time loving someone that doesn't love you. Be upfront with your expectations. If that person isn't ready to love you the way you feel you should be loved then that isn't for you. Love doesn't hurt. It has its ups and downs but in the end you are supposed to be able to lean on the fact that that person loves you and has your back. If you leave he may realize what he lost. If you stay he may never take you seriously. Do what feels right.
@niuniu0502 (3)
• China
16 Oct 08
loving a person is a happy thing.
but if the person who you are loving would not like to commit you, maybe his love is not deep.
you can also be goog to him if you love him so deeply, but once you find that he dees not love you more, please give up.
