Family comes first even when I am in a relation !!

I agree that we have to give our family the priority even we are in relationship. But I have to remind myself everytime that my partner now is going to be my next family. I would apart from my family now and build another family of my own, so I have to start to manage the time and the attention to both equally. I cannot just neglect the one that I love for the family that I love. vice versa. I would try my best so both of them can get along, and if I couldn't I would calculate the future. Tried to forecast the future. I don't want to lose someone that is destined to be my soulmate for a blind love to family

Agree with you. Family, especially parents, they are the one love us most. They can sacrifices what ever they have and just to help their children or kids no matter what reasons, even they are wrong. But don't forget, when you in relation, the next level is marriage, that become your own family too. Thus, is a challenge for us to balance that in order not to have any site into problem.

In a relationship as in dating? Yes I would say that you should continue to put your family as a priority. Once you marry though the priorities change. Your spouse becomes your new family and must become your new priority. Your spouse takes first position. If this change does not take place your marriage will fail to thrive.

that's real sweet & i hope u can stick to me but so many girls are jealous of their in-laws to start with i'm afraid you are going to run into trouble down the road. i don't know why they are that way but they sure are. i think it's real silly & very immature but that seems tobe what happens so many times.i had 2 sets of in-laws & was very fond of both setd. i never thought about being jealous of them especially my mother-in-law. good luck.

Maybe the reason why I am not married yet is because I am still taking care of my family. But when someone asked me: which do you love the most, your parents or your girlfriend? I said my girlfriend. We have been in the relationship for four years and have been together for more than that. And I can say that whatever my family would do for me, my girlfriend can do more. Have a nice day!

Parents are who love you most, but you hurt them most,but they still care you most. I think nobody can instead of them. Most of the time,we forget their love,just like the air.we have been used to that. It's the greatest love in the world, it doesn't ask you to turn back. Even if we get married,that love in my heart will never changed . I wish every parents have a happy life.

Hello, bsa861! Our family is made by our best friends. Friends those who will never abandon us behind. Our family has seen us growing, has helped us growing... They should always be the top thing in your list. When you ever need anything, you know that you can count on your family. Some friends might just disappear, might refuse, but your family will always be there, supporting what you do. Now, even if you are on a serious relationship, you should not leave your family members behind. They all deserve most of your attention. You should also pay attention to your partner. When you marry, things are different. Your family changes, it's like having a second family with your partner. Still, you should not stop giving attention to your family members. One day you might lose your friendships, your partner... But your family will never stop loving you. Respectfully, Munhozmib.

It is said that parents will never leave children even if the children are very ugly.No matter what happens ,our family will stand with us ,help us .When we are happy ,they will share the happiness with us .When we are in trouble ,they will understand and help us to deal with trouble. So I love my family .

well arent you the lucky one to have relatives that youd choose over yer mate and conform to their wants and desires in everything you do. not everyone has the benefit of the Cleaver`s.. some "family" isnt even worth peeing on if they were on fire.

yeah i strongly agree with you.... family comes first then after relation... family is always there no matter what happened .. you made mistake or not they are always there for you to love and support you in everything they can do for you .

A love that a person has for his/her relations (parents,sister&brother) is different from the love that you have for a Girlfriend/boyfriend. No two love is the same. There are times when persons will put family before his/her wife/husband and I think this is wrong. There should never be a question of equalities. I don't think that a person should make a choice between relations and fiance. I hope that anyone you married or seeing will understand your stance tho.

Definitely my family also. I mean i grew up with them . They are the one who knows me. They are the one who is responsible for who i am right now so i owe it to them. SO when it comes to my turn giving back i would not hesitate and they will be the first .

yaa its true ...and xactly family members omly father and mother ...........i do believe .and i never trust any other than them .i believe and follow what ever they ........... as u said family members means it can be ur relatives also but .......it is preferred only in the past /presently what i hope never maintain gud relation.u might be seeing how the society incidents are happenings ... i mostly give preference to my frnds .....who are really caring .......