I'm keeping a secret and i need somesone's opinion.thanks!
By wsfdwkx
@wsfdwkx (56)
China
October 3, 2008 10:57pm CST
i been talking to this guy on the phone.he lives in another state. we are just friends.nothing else is going on.i have not told him about where i live or anything that can put me in danger,im not meeting up with him.but i do like talking to him,he seems alright and harmless,he's my age.i am 24.but i know if my mum finds out she will start asking questings and want to know everything when its all innocent i just like keeping something private.I know she will make a big deal out of it.i pay my own phone bill but she doesn't care,its only $200.im at the stage where i love my mum and dad,i would never do anything to put them or me in dange ,just wanted someone to talk to.should i tell her?
2 responses
@rocker21 (2716)
• India
4 Oct 08
see you are 24 and that is quite a big grown up stage of your age for yourself to take decisions for you whom to talk and whom not to, just think about this and on the either side just dont get too much intimate with this guy coz hes just TALKING to you on the fone and that is where he can Absolutely be your Mr.Right or whatever he maybe SOUNDING good, you still dont know what a kinda person he is PERSONALLY. You know your limits you know your mind, Work with it, dont let your heart flow away with his Cute and Supportive talks, Just by sounding some one good , doesnt makes them! good!
Finally you have to see what lies beneath everything,
Even outside the silent earth, lies a big lava flow of fire,
Be Alert and warned, dont get flown off too much and dont put anyone on comparision, your parents are your parents and their decisions and this guy....his decisions and your own's decsions are completely 3 different things,.
Hear to all, but follow not what you think is right, but follow that one thought that comes
That yeah, He /she is by the way saying right!
@PrarieStyle (2486)
• United States
4 Oct 08
I don't think I would tell her. After all you are 24, not 14 and have the right to keep things like this private if you desire to.
I wouldn't tell her until after you meet him and if you are dating him.
Really what's the difference between meeting someone you talk to on the phone and someone you just met some place else? We never know about anyone do we?
If you do go to meet him, I think it would be a good idea to take a friend along though. Or at least tell a friend what you are doing and where you are going.
Good luck.
