I hate my self!!

Hi there cossacks10! There are times when we hate ourselves. This is perhaps because we were not able to achieve something that we would like to achieve. Or, maybe because we like something badly but end up not getting it. There are instances when we feel that we are not important or that we are being ignored for some reasons. We feel sorry for ourselves then eventually hate ourselves. But this should not be the case. If we do not love ourselves, who else will? Cheers!

I used to hate myself. I hated myself because of my incapability of doing many things in this life. I used to hate myself because I don't have the guts to become myself and tell people what I want. I used to hate myself because I couldn't say no to my parents who forced their wants to me. I used to hate myself and never forgive myself for the mistake that I've done. If you hate myself, you should try to find out what's wrong by contemplating to yourself about things going on to you. You should try to answer many questions about yourself. What do you hate from yourself? Why you hate it? Who makes you hate it? Since when? How do you want it to be? It is how you know yourself better. By knowing yourself better, you would not only love yourself more but also would forgive yourself. For this time, just think about yourself first. Forget about everybody else, because no one would love you more than yourself.

you have to love yourself from within, try to deal with what ever problem you have within yourself, you are in this world for a reason, please love yourself and dont ever put yourself down because you are precious.

Dear Friend, Please don't do that with yourself! Life is the most precious gift and u should love yourself a lot because not everybody is as lucky as you are! There could be something which is bothering you for not loving yourself... find answers for this and try doing meditation or just go to sea side or peaceful area.. this would definitely help you buddy! You should have specific reasons unless u r not disgraced with the fact of your survival! thanks.. Remember you are special ! and there is somebody whose waiting for you.. so just be HAPPY and HAPPY! :) :) :)

i did that some time ago and now i beginning to pick up and try to love myself again. did u ask yourself why u hate yourself and the reason for doing so. if u know, congratulations, u are able to recognised your weakness. your next step is to stop hating yourself but to change them. why continuing hating. if u have the energy to hate yourself, why not use that energy to change them so that u can love yourself again. saying is easier said than done. it is all up to you. no one can help you as this is YOUR problem. u must learn to overcome them just like i did and slowly u will love youself again. i wish u best wishes in doing so and ihope to see u post 'I Love my self' some times later.

Like you,i hated myself several years ago.i used to complain to my parents that i i'm not a gorgeous or cute girl who many girls dream to be.In addition to it,i also complained many other things.Hey,hating youself does no good to you.Maybe,you get a turn.Everyone is so specail that you should love youself!

sometimes i hate myself because i envy a lot of women, how i wish i was as tall and slender like them, how i was i was someone wealthy and beautiful, i how i wanted to become as talented as someone famous,i had so many frustrations in life because i did not grow up from a happy family, in fact, i came from a broken one. i did not have good education just like anybody else, i lack so many things in life. i envy my friends who have good and happy families who can get anything they want without shedding tears and sweat and blood unlike me. i get things i want but i have to be hurt and sacrifice. but those things i had encountered made me become stronger, and faithful. i am tougher than my friends who experience small problems and give up easily, me, i am a fighter and survivor, i will live on anywhere without having too much difficulty adjusting in people and situations, and then i realized, i am meant to be me, and i am lucky. why do you hate yourself? did you do something and you failed? no one loves you? aren't you capable of doing loving? sometimes we blame so many people around us and forget to assess our selves, try to see what is inside you, talk to yourself, tell yourself why you did this and that, what you want to achieve or become, were you at fault or not. was there something else you should have done and did not. and then talk to God, ask Him to give you wisdom, to see the different perspective in life, to see special things about yourself, to discover more about yourself, that you want to become a better person. it will be hard at first, just open your heart and mind and always pray.

i can't tell iou what to do but i sure know how you feel.