is there a difference between helping someone and make them feel helped?
By harichandan
@harichandan (248)
India
October 5, 2008 12:31am CST
I sometimes think some people do really help me in some situation and expects nothing from me for those helps. but a different category of people are there who may help me but their main aim was to make me feel helped by him/her.So, i really appreciates the first kind of persons in my life rather than the second ones.what do you feel about it?
2 responses
@adriantys78 (949)
• Malaysia
5 Oct 08
Me too, i would prefer for the first kind of person, but that's life, everyone is expecting or wish to get helped when they require that. I feel that first kind of person normally from our best friends as they didn't expect much for the return. So is worth to keep good relationship for that. Of course, sometimes is the challenge when we need to help them back but we are unable to provide the help. No choice, have to be frank to them and hope they understand us. 
@harichandan (248)
• India
6 Oct 08
yes u are right. earlier i used to think that these terms like best friends are fake ones, but later on i understood they exist in this world only.
@adriantys78 (949)
• Malaysia
7 Oct 08
Hi Harichandan, thanks for the marking on best response. I am glad that our thinking is similar and glad that you are one of my friend too. Happy MyLoting and all the best to us. 
@santhonyraj (142)
• India
6 Oct 08
We should alway helpful to other ether they are doing any great thing for us. If we see todays world we get the different type of people even we do many things for them they never remember what they done.But some people are such love full they are not waiting what gain they will get from other. They only keep in mind that I want to help other.Same time before it happen to me When I am trouble no one is there to help me but I have everything now their are trying to help me unnessery . I am unable to understand other.
