Friend moving away. Should I be upset ?
By pimagro24
@pimagro24 (1046)
Thailand
October 5, 2008 3:22am CST
A friend of mind of 12 years who lives 40 minutes just call and said that she is moving two state away. Her parents are buying a big house and she want to go with them . My voice started cracking and tears was flowing from my eyes. I was upset and she knew it. Actually I was crying she just didn't hear the sniffles. I personally don't understand I was crying. She hasn't been a good friend for me. she barely calls and when she does it is all bragging about what she has and how much it costs. She say things such as "I spend $400 for a internet cellphone, $300 for clothes or her "girlfriend" gave her $900 to spend as she pleases. She know I'm low income person. i don't want to hear about what she has. It make me like crap. Just now while we were talking she interrupt our conversation to say "my girlfriend just called and I want to see what she want". So she hung up. We hardly talk more than once every two months. She couldn't even give me her attention for 5 minutes without worrying about her "sugar mama". Who she gets to see everyday. I don't have a lot of fiends,real friend anyway.I have tried making friends, but always end up with the wrong kind of people who use me. I'm on the heavy side and I seem to attract jerks. I only had one friend.She keep saying we are best friend, but she doesn't act like it. Please don't say I'm needy because I'm not.like I said we only talk sparingly. What she say and what she does is two different things. Should I be upset she is going away? is she worth to cry over? 
4 responses
@Flying1024102 (47)
• Australia
5 Oct 08
Well once my friend moved away but we still are in contact with each other and visiting as well. If the person isn't important to you, why do you over react?
@deserve40 (1656)
• India
5 Oct 08
You will be upset for the fact that your good friend is moving away and she is the one and only one friend you are having. But at the same time you should think about your friend also. She has her own responsibilities and own aspirations too. You should wish her good luck and try to concentrate on your own work. I think that the only way to forget about your this type of friend is to try and get yourself engaged in some work in such a way that you do not get time to think about her.I know that it is hard to do but if you are successful then it is the best solution to your problem.
@lovely_utsav (36)
• India
5 Oct 08
i think she is very selfish or she dont like your freindship . I think so u should not be upset for it you would get many other friend who are much much better then her and one thing you schould never spend money more than you can efford it & best of luck for your new friend
@sunnyfall9 (42)
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5 Oct 08
a real friend who care about you,I don't think your friend is your best friend ,she just care about herself.my experience, don't waste time on people who don't care about you,a friend maybe he or she isn't beautiful or smart, but she is honest to your friendship, that is your good friend, don't worry this friend, she just will hurt you if you like her much more
