what do you do when your afraid of letting go?

Philippines
October 5, 2008 3:06pm CST
Eventhough you're hurt, would you still go back to him/her just because he/she is the only person you can think of and/or run to? ironic, huh?
2 responses
X3NN379
@X3NN379 (40)
• Philippines
6 Oct 08
hi shertrix! back then i was afraid of letting go. even if i knew it was the only thing to do to keep me sane. but there came a time when my emotions started piling up to the point that i feel very miserable and pathetic. it was really, really hard for me. but i had to let go. i guess i do not have an answer to your question. i would like to say that letting go would be very hard when you do it, but i find moving on a lot harder. letting go only takes moments while moving on takes almost forever. maybe that is what you're really afraid of...
shertrix
@shertrix (52)
• Philippines
8 Oct 08
I really don't know if I can move on without him in my life... it was like he started to change my life again after I was in this very painful experience.. like I just wanted to die, but then he came along or should I say time repeated and we kinda met again and we started to make a happy story and I kinda got used to it and felt like I never ever wanted it to end.. I felt like he was my knight who saved me from dying from that dragon who wants to rip my heart off... I tried to let go of him at the time that I was feeling so attached to him and it was like I just couldn't because there was this emptiness that I couldn't bear.. and now I wanted to move on but I can't 'cause what I feel I'm really afraid of is loosing him.... so sad huh? thanks a lot for sharing your thoughts... I appreciate it... happy mylotting!
jammyt
@jammyt (2818)
• Philippines
6 Oct 08
Well, it depends on how "hurt" I am. If it is just a mere misunderstanding that we could still patch up, then that would be no problem. But if it means there is no respect for me anymore and he has crossed the line, then I would not go back. As hard as it may seem, I have to convince myself that he is not the only fish in the sea. And that i won't die without him. LOL!
shertrix
@shertrix (52)
• Philippines
8 Oct 08
hahaha!! I like it when you said that he is not the only fish in the sea.. kinda sounds familiar to me.. hihi... I hope I could also have the same kind off thinking like you... I just don't know how... I think I should start a new discussion..hihi..thanks for the new idea...