Love Languages

I read the book a long time ago. But recently Joyce Meyer did a couple of shows on it. I strongly believe my husband's first love language is words of affirmation. He is not physically affectionate as he didn't grow up that way. I know appreciates when someone does things for him but it's not top on his list. Quality time with me obviously is not his top priority. Can't remember the fifth one - is it gifts?. I think it is. He doesn't much care about that stuff. I am hard pressed to figure out what my number one love language is because all of them are important to me. Guess I'm a wee bit selfish. I think they are all important in relationships but some people do "require" one more than the others.