pity?

blackcatbetty - The word pity focuses on negative feelings, which I try to avoid. I understand your feelings about a criminal, but I don't like the thought of an electric chair. I pity those who can't find the joy and mystique in life. I don't label it pity, I send blessings because I feel sorry for them. I can't judge another person.

I pity my ex which is good because in the beginning I used to hate my ex so much for what they did to me! They were manipulative, controlling and I was in an abusive relationship, a year ago tomorrow in fact I got out, well escaped from my ex, the hatred I felt was pretty bad and started to eat away at me like a cancer, but with time I was able to turn the hatred into pity and pity is an emotion that I feel comfortable with, well compared to hatred any emotion is safer (apart from anger) but anger is another subject and another complexity! Pity is a good emotion it is also a releasing emotion as well because pity can be healthy for the mind, body and soul!

I'm not sure about myself.. Pity can come in many forms to me, and depending on who the person is ^_^ But no matter how, i will always pity the elderly, whom are alone, when they have got kids whom can support them but they choose to leave him alone.. I pity those elderly, as they are actually supposed to be enjoying life, but their children are all too seflish and self centred that they dun wanna leave their elderly parents to be a burden to them.. Thus i pity the old..

I'm about like that, too. Mostly I try to encourage people, though, instead of pitying them. I think that's what most people want.

yeah it depend on what it is. if it's a person who life is screwed up by what they do or did. no.. someone who became cripple in a accident. yeah for awhile. get up and work at it. learn something new. just depend what it is. even with my medical condition i have no pitty on myself, and if i tell people what all is wrong with i tell them don't have pitty on me, don't feel bad or sorry for me either. i don't.

Once a week i go to Princess Margaret Hospital for chemotherapy/Radiation and on University Avenue i see about 8 beggars Yes indeed i do pity them but because i am not sure how they would use a donation i donot offer anything except for a few exceptions Pity yes i guess with anyone in poverty,bereavement or any other failing Good Luck Of course serial killers etc NO PITY at all

I am the type of person who doesnt pity anyone and who thinks people get what they deserve. If you're a bad person, you certainly deserve the bad things that happen to you. It also has something to do with karma. Most people anyway dont like to be pitied. They hate it when people pity them. But sometimes when i see i small child begging in the street and those with no houses and just staying in the streets, i must say i pity those people.