when does happiness becomes scary?

hi shertrix. i would like to share my opinion about this. happiness depends on the person who feels it. it is possible for one thing to mean joy to somebody and fear to another. or sometimes a person that was usually happy with something would start to get scared by it. anyways, i would like to share my thoughts by giving an example: i would be very happy about one thing. i would be very much involved in it. it would be a part of my life. i would start to feel that i cannot live without it. and then i would realize that it would not last. that would be really scary...

yes true, but as far as i know she cant be happy lookin me going upset about something, Happiness becomes scary when its too much around us as we all know... everything passes by, even if its the happiness or sadness!

I think it is rather contrary since when you are happy your not supposed to be happy but rather afraid. When your relationship is near heartbreak then your happiness fades with it then you are not happy anymore therefore you just need to get over that relationship. That is why I believe that when in a state of happiness you would never think of being in a state of fear. Fear is the complete opposite of happiness and the two can never meet at one point because when fear is already there then happiness is never present there.

there is more scarryness to a relation than heartbreak.. this comes in when you are blackmailed or bein done to do things u are really not willing to but if u dont then the one whome u love would be having or creating more troubles for you to come!!!

to me, happiness is scary when you know it. most people are happy but they don't really think about it. i know i am happy and it makes me scared. the knowledge of having happiness now makes me afraid of losing it. i can't imagine living life without happiness. i have everything i need and most things that i will ever want. this is happiness to me but i'm worried about losing them. what if one day i lost all these? i think that is a very scary thought indeed. cheers ;p