i'm in bad mood, what should i do?
@wiseshopping1 (679)
China
October 6, 2008 2:04am CST
last evening, one stranger added my qq id(A chinese chat tool. she is a girl. she told me that she is girlfriend of my boyfriend.
. her place is just where my boyfriend and i will go in three days, for a new job. she told me that she loves my boyfriend very much, and my boyfriend will go to her place, she asked whether i know that. she asked my ideas. she asked for my fullfill their two. she told much aout their love... i pretended to care nothing. but in fact, i can't help believing. after all, i know my boyfriend is a chatter boy, he likes to make friends with girls.
so i told BF the matter, he said, it must be joking from a chafferer. he said if i believed this, he will depart with me, because we are lover, we should trust eah other.
now, my mood is very bad, how should i do?
. her place is just where my boyfriend and i will go in three days, for a new job. she told me that she loves my boyfriend very much, and my boyfriend will go to her place, she asked whether i know that. she asked my ideas. she asked for my fullfill their two. she told much aout their love... i pretended to care nothing. but in fact, i can't help believing. after all, i know my boyfriend is a chatter boy, he likes to make friends with girls.
so i told BF the matter, he said, it must be joking from a chafferer. he said if i believed this, he will depart with me, because we are lover, we should trust eah other.
now, my mood is very bad, how should i do?1 response
@anndocs (249)
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6 Oct 08
Hi! I think what you feel is just normal because you are upset and confused.
But still, you need to take some move to free your mind.
Try to talk to him again in right time and place where nothing would bother your conversation. Tell him everything what's inside you, Be honest to him about your feelings, tell him what makes you hurt. If you tend to request something (like lessen chatting with other girls), if he loves you, he will eventually limit/stop, because he's concern to you.
You will feel if the guys is serious and saying the truth. Specially us, girls has high instinct. Yes Trust is very important, so don't let that trust be broken.
Good day!
