Is physical apperance really matters when it comes to love?

Philippines
October 6, 2008 2:44am CST
People usually consider physical apperance when choosing a partner... and most of my friends too! I just wanna know if you guys are the same.. share your opinion!
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9 responses
@applefreak (3130)
• Singapore
9 Oct 08
well first i'll have to say i'm a girl. maybe the criteria for choosing a partner is different for a man and a woman. to me, physical appearance matters to a certain extent. to me, as long as the features i.e. eyes, nose and mouth are in their correct place, how a man look doesn't really matter. however, certain physical things matter to me. firstly, he must take care of his appearance. i can't stand people who don't shower everyday or doesn't care about how he looks. what is MOST IMPORTANT to me when i select a partner is his ability to make me laugh. life is hard enough so i just want someone who can make me laugh. cheers ;p
@hillock (749)
• Qatar
19 Oct 08
i never thought of thinking those facial parts need to be in the right places.. but yah ur right a person who doenst shower everyday? my gosh! water is plenty! yah..i agree when u said the ability to make u laugh.. with all the crisis. We need it all! =)
@hillock (749)
• Qatar
19 Oct 08
this is my 2nd try.. when your younger you tend to look for the appearances..but as u go older[like me =)] you'll look for the other important factors.. Well if the other one is unfaithful but look likes brad pitt..necer mind![opppss..i got second thoughts on that!?!!] but when as u age u become wiser and you dont look for a partner on the basis of how damn good looking they are. =)
@hillock (749)
• Qatar
19 Oct 08
well when your a younger you'll go for the good looking ones but as u get older..there are factors that you want most.. honestly..if the person is unfaithful but looks like bradd pitt..well never mind![i kinda have second thoughts about it though..wahahaha!] but the idea of having a great partner doesnt necessarily have to be so damn good looking. you'll know when u reach a certain age..[dont know though!]hehehe!
@hillock (749)
• Qatar
19 Oct 08
well when your a younger you'll go for the good looking ones but as u get older..there are factors that you want most.. honestly..if the person is unfaithful but looks like bradd pitt..well never mind![i kinda have second thoughts about it though..wahahaha!] but the idea of having a great partner doesnt necessarily have to be so damn good looking. you'll know when u reach a certain age..[dont know though!]hehehe!
• Philippines
9 Oct 08
it is not a matter of of apperance, it's a matter of choosing a nice person.what is good looking if you dont have a good heart.?it's useless.
• Philippines
10 Oct 08
i'm not into physical appearance because i like people being true to themselves and they never hesitate in showing what they are and who they are. the truth and reality lies in to a person's inner self. the true beauty is skin deep. finding a partner based on appearance can sometimes possibly have consequences and complications. learn to love the person, you don't have to chose whether he is handsome or she is beautiful. Being in love is choosing the right person that God has created for you, for in this world we should learn to wait for our love life which has been God's creation. it depends on God's decision love yourself first before loving someone else.
@nyumix (1658)
• Belgium
6 Oct 08
When you are in love with some body, normally it is about feeling. But I will not denied that physical appearance is one of the first thing that attract people to each other.
@joy4you (641)
• India
7 Oct 08
While physical appearance may be the first thing that might get you started it is not what will keep you going. Ultimately if you are not able to get along with your partner or your partner ill treats you etc then your relationship is bound to fail. appearance never lasts long, when it's over then what do you do? what are you left with.
• Philippines
6 Oct 08
i don't think physical appearance is important in love. when you love someone, you don't choose him/her because she's perfect but because you can accept him/her perfectly.