How would you react to infidelity?

If my partner is cheating, that means I am at fault Ihave some how failed to meet all her needs and desires. It is time for me to ponder and think back where I had bone wrong and where I should make ammends. We oftentend to blame the other person which i think is incorrect.The other person can only make in roads where we are weak. A place gets flooded onlywhenthe embankment of the river is weak. If we know tht it is weak and let it remain weak, the embankment will break and flood the entire area. We can't blame the embankment ent or the river.

When I was younger I would have beaten up the man and kicked my wife out of the house. Now I am older, I would realise that it was because I had failed her in some way and try to do better. Much better to stop and think what fun you have had together in the past and try to get those good times back again.

my immediate reaction would be same as yours but i will forgive him for sure at a later stage.. but seriously i dont want this to happen with anybody..

There is really nothing one can do when someone is unfaithful. It is worse if it happens when you're married and already have children. There are worse things but it is really bad for the children.

I would not know yet since I havent had any experience on that. But just in case I will, I may be talking to that person first and listen as to why he/she committed such an act. AFterwhich, we could probably still reconcile or not then I would send him/her back to where he/she truly belongs.