would you choose the one who loves you or the one you love?

Philippines
October 6, 2008 11:31am CST
supposing you would be faced with kind of question, how would answer it and why?
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6 responses
@zer0charly (5614)
• Philippines
9 Oct 08
I wouldn't choose any. why wouldn't I pursue any of those 2 which in the first place it wouldn't work out. Love is a give a take process, and Love work not just because of one person. it should always be a giving a receiving process.
@fluffysue (1482)
• United States
9 Oct 08
The one who loves me. I could easily fall in love with someone who already loved me. Finding that person is the hard part.
@essytssy (125)
• India
6 Oct 08
One you love will not reflect the same sort of affection in turn for you. You have to toil a lot to impress them. But one who loves will be with you always at time to struggle and share the things for you. Even a small gift for them will make them more happy. They will support you at all your stands. Life will be good IF you get the one who loves you.
@cbreeze (1205)
• United States
6 Oct 08
Difficult question. I think I would choose the one who loves me. I would rather be swept off my feet than to struggle to get someone to love me. I think I could fall in love with the one who loves me, given enough time together.
@joy4you (641)
• India
8 Oct 08
I would choose the one who loves me, because if I choose someone who did not love me that would be selfish on my part and unfair to my partner, but if I choose someone who loves me then the problem is only limited to me and I would do my best to find something nice in that person which I could grow to love, and who knows, maybe we end up loving each other. Now wouldn't that be wonderful.
@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
7 Oct 08
Hummm! That is a quite a conundrum! If I love someone but they don't love me, what good is that? How long will they stay with me? But If they love me and I don't love them, maybe I could learn to love them? Especially if they were a good person? And they were at least likable. There's got to be something there? I think I would do better in the long run with someone who loved me. But maybe even better, might be, to wait till I find someone that I love and they also love me? That would be better. So I think I'll wait.