What do you think the feeling of mother the abonded her child?
By Ohara_1983
@Ohara_1983 (4117)
Kuwait
October 6, 2008 5:49pm CST
Today i just read a news in my place & very near in my place where i been stay, that one child abonded by her parent & just she is too small as the authority said the baby is just born like a week, the parent leave her in the shopping cart & keep in one place, when the patrol car make thier check in the place they heard some noise but they ignore once. but they keep on waiting if the baby will stop crying till they found thet the parent abonded her, they take the baby & make the report. my question is how & what will be the feeling to abonded thier on flesh that she have nothing to do.
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12 responses
@cossacks10 (502)
• Morocco
7 Oct 08
People some times change too animals or worst then that , in some cases we find the animal wiser then the humain ,the animal defind his children by his life,and can die trying helping them , So why did those people abond their own chair for nothing !!for money ?? for good living ?? what will those children do when they would find there selves alone in streets, is that the best way??
asking for charity or being crimenals are the two only solutions for them to live ,if it still some thing to live , they will die slowly and slowly .Or they will get purchassed by illagal doctors , for taking their body organs ...
Generally , why people do stuffs like that ?? are they crazy ?? are they without hearts ?? disgusted ??The question is soo thought to been answered.
@Ohara_1983 (4117)
• Kuwait
7 Oct 08
your right, i feel sorry for that mother if the authority will found her.
@iyah10 (4115)
• Kuwait
7 Oct 08
I knew that it is also hard for a Mother to leave a child in the cart as she want someone to take it and I felt her burden as well that it is not easy but for sure she have a reason on why and guess she cannot provide to give the child a good future but for once if I will be in here situation I would not let someone make any harm to my child and fight for it until it is needed even to give my own life but Whow really it is such a hard heart of a Mother......
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@djoyce71 (2511)
• Philippines
7 Oct 08
I think it was hard for the mother to abandon her baby on that cart. There are possible reasons and one of it, maybe, is poverty. She thought, maybe, that she is not capable of raising the child and if she abandons her child and somebody finds it, her child may have a better life. But still, it's wrong to leave your child like that. She should have asked for help or did something to raise the child on her own.
@Ohara_1983 (4117)
• Kuwait
7 Oct 08
yes it hard to abonded, but theres a place in kuwait that she can leave her daughter if she cannot afford what the baby needs.
@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
14 Oct 08
i don't see how they live w/themselves when they do something like that. that would drive me crazy.
@fasttalker (2796)
• United States
7 Oct 08
I live in a bordering state that has a law that anyone can take a baby to an emergency room and drop it off and no questions are asked. The child is turned over to protection services for adoption.
I first found this appaling but have seen it work to the advantage of the unwanted
babies. As far as I know there haven't been a lot but even one that was left for whatever the reason stands a chance of surviving as opposed to just being left to the outside.
I know you never know another persons situation until you have walked a mile in their shoes but this is beyond my comprehension.
@shalk_man (188)
• Morocco
7 Oct 08
yes my brother this is a sad news
but we mutn't give in to resist and to getter a batter sociaty
and in order to avoid such events
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@ronaldinu (12422)
• Malta
7 Oct 08
I cannot judge such mother. It is a story which I do find heard to reason out. I guess the mother might have the child out of wedlock or else is passing from a great stress and does not know what she is doing.
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
7 Oct 08
That is so awful. They could have done so many other things for the baby instead of leaving it there like that. The baby is too smal to do anything for itself or to get help. I don't know what the world is coming to anymore. Poor baby.
@underdogtoo (9579)
• Philippines
7 Oct 08
Life is very strange and something like this happens which makes it even stranger. I don't think it is easy for a mother to abandon her child but there might have been circumstances where she is unable to cope with her situation and this is the best she can do, which is very little. I am sure she hurts and regrets this action.
@teka44 (3420)
• Brazil
7 Oct 08
Hi Ohara. This mother would have her reasons to do that. But I'm a mother too and in my life I crossed some very hard times alone with my daughter. And I never thought about give her or worst, abandon her. NEVER. She is mine, a part of me and I love her too much. She doesn't ask for born so is my responsability keep her in the best way I can. I don't know which was the reason this mother have but if I would be her I will think that someone can find my baby and take him only to hurt him. We hear about these things all the time. So I never let it happen because nothing that me and my baby will pass could be worst than it. I can do anything to defend my daughter, ANYTHING. So I'm sorry but I can't understand something like that. A baby isn't a thing that you can put out without think twice. In the last times we hear about things like this every day. What is happen with the young people? They don't have feelings anymore?
@belk89 (1103)
• Philippines
7 Oct 08
People who abandon there child dont feel anything but guilt for the rest of there lives. I bet at one point they will regret what they did. Sometimes they just want an easy way to get out of the problem. They think that by letting other people take care of there kids they will be out of the responsibility and they no longer have a problem. Sad to know that there are people out there who were given a chance to become a parent even though they dont deserved it.
Some couples wishes to have a child on there own yet they cant have one. I feel bad for every child who were born to a bad parent. One thing i have in mind everytime they abandon there kids is at least there is a chance the baby could have a better life and in good hands. A couple or anyone with a good heart who can give the child love and care that it deserved.