how to get over my ex

Bahamas
October 6, 2008 6:12pm CST
am missing my ex bf so much is there anything to do to get him off my mind i cant eat or sleep am so sick of cryin i try talkin to other guys but my mind is always on him i try chillin with friends i dnt no want to do
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@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
7 Oct 08
I think if that wont work out with you forgetting him do something else then that. Some people just to mend their broken heart they work or live in another place just to forget that person. Some really make them selves busy like what they didn't do when they were in the relationship that is the time they do it. Some poeple goes to church to pray to ask strength. Some they see their friends just to release the pain.Some girls that I kew goes to the salon or parlor to make them feel beautiful. I'll ask you a question do you think his thinking of you now and reacting the same like what your doing now? If not Will you still cry and would react that way? The pain will give you more strength to go on. Do it gradually if it's really hard for you you can make it. Good morning!
@rsa101 (38166)
• Philippines
7 Oct 08
I sense that the breakup is just happened very recently. Well if it is, then I would say it will take some time for you to get over it. Right now the best thing that you could do to yourself is to get yourself back without him. I can see that you have lost yourself and is now trying to find it with other guys. Now is not the right time for you to look for another love. You would not find them there. You are yourself and you just need to regain that back by yourself and not from other guys. Learn from that experience and start learning to love yourself more right now. It is not selfish since you just ended a relationship. It is the right time for you to love yourself and erase those pains in your ex. It is only when you learn to love yourself again will you be able to share that love with others.
@Ohara_1983 (4117)
• Kuwait
7 Oct 08
You cannot get over till your still care of him, just release him in your mind, i know it is hard but try your best, if that person will be for you it will come with out any question my friend.
@grammasnook (1871)
• United States
7 Oct 08
Write everything on paper that way it is not rolling around in your mind and when you are done writing burn the paper. you can Learn to release and clear your mind this way.
@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
7 Oct 08
If the breakup just happened, it's going to take some time. And if you love him, it's going to take quite some time. Any way you can get him back or there's no returning? If not, try to do something worthwhile with the extra time you now have. People we care for are hard to replace. So take your time, let the tears flow. Write some poetry. I hope somebody else has some good advice.