When spouse puts you last.
By firewind451
@firewind451 (129)
October 6, 2008 11:36pm CST
I was wondering what others thought of this. My ex would always take someone elses side against me in any argument I had. I don't care who they were or what they were doing. I don't mean once in a while I mean every time. Additionally, when anyone accused me of doing something wrong, no matter how ridiculous the source was, (her ex husband, a nasty gossip etc.) it was thrown in my face and I was forced to prove them wrong.
I know what I did. Walked.
What do you think about a "relationship" like that?
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3 responses
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
7 Oct 08
I think he was a very unhappy man with deep seated issues and he was he would outlet them by siding with other people against you, i think you would find there was something that was so deep within about something that was so petty that meybe he didn't even remember what it is, sometimes issues can festa inside people and come in in strange ways...it must have been very hurtful for you...
@firewind451 (129)
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7 Oct 08
Thank you for the kind words. The pain was my own for trying to make it work.
Btw, you got the genders wrong. :)
I am a he. She was the constant accuser.
@granmeme (162)
• United States
7 Oct 08
Sounds like you did the right thing. i would think there was a lot of turmoil going on in your house hold. It is a shame when you cannot depend on your partner to support you. Weather you where right or wrong he should of been their for you and when he knew you where wrong he could have found a supportive way to tell you. I also had a ex that was a lot like that. I never felt like I had his approval or support in anything.
