how do you judge a person in the first sight?

India
October 7, 2008 3:21am CST
Hi everybody.... As I am a soft minded person, I always believe everybody, who I see in my life, to be a good person and genuine. But, they aren't. I had an experience. I had one best friend, but she betrayed me for some reason. so, How do you judge a person in the first sight?
6 responses
• China
7 Oct 08
Hi, This is funny discussion.I am sad that you were betrayed by your friend,her essentiality is very private ! It is hard to known he or she is good person in the first sight.I think everyone all have the sixth sense.It needs a long time to judge a person,need to talk,to communicate,etc. Have a lovely day!
• India
7 Oct 08
I dint mean i became her friend in the first sight. gradually we became friends and this betrayal happened after 6 years. so, thats the thing that hurted a lot.
• Australia
7 Oct 08
There are lots of things to look for, but it depends what suits you. The main things that tell a lot about a person is their choice of word, you can look at how fast they talk, their confidence and things they do. A good person can be different to everyone, you might like confident people, smart people or just looks. I usually judge people straight away and i profile a lot, i stay with my first choice till something goes by that makes me change then i stick with that till proven other wise. But this doesnt change the way i treat people, it just changes the effect i have on people.
@bbsr13 (4196)
• India
7 Oct 08
hello,Bharathy! I am also soft minded man but I don't believe everybody in the first instance.It is unwise to make friendship with some one who is not understood properly.You may start acquaintance with the person and accept as a friend only after your heart accept him/her otherwise you will be in problem.Be choosy in this regard.thanx.
@cncoke (439)
• China
7 Oct 08
I am sorry to say that I am not a bright person.When I see a person,I always judge it from its saying and outlooking.If he is like to talk too much,I think he is a clever one.Because he can talk with his fast brain.If he pays attention to his wearing,he is a carefulness one.
• India
7 Oct 08
I beleive that first impression is the last impression. I very rarely change my opinion about a person. Either I like them from the start or I take an instant dislike. When I meet a person for the first time, there are vibes which i get. I don't like the boisterous, show off types. I just ignore such people.
• Philippines
7 Oct 08
there are lot of ways you can judge or even read the pasts of a person..but it only involves observing..observe the gestures, the words used and look carefully to his/her eyes..i think it sounded to be complicated..but if you want i can help..i can tell..just buzz at my page for help