want to make more friends
By kaesta
@kaesta (37)
Kenya
October 7, 2008 7:02am CST
please help me with good hints of making many new friends as am quit reserved.
5 responses
@deserve40 (1656)
• India
7 Oct 08
Well , it should not be very difficult. I am sure that you must be having some interests. Choose subjects of your interests on mylot. Start reading the discussions on mylot about these subjects of your own interests.
You will find that some members have similar interests that of yours and they have similar opinions like yours. You can request them for friendship and I feel that mostly they will accept it.
I would not suggest you to try to make friends whose views are not matching with yours atleast in the begining.
@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
7 Oct 08
Hi everyone,
i have just registered here and this is my first post.
I seem to be learning about more and more new places for interaction on the web.
I came across mylot through another website that i regularly use
I hope to make some positive contributions here and make some new friends
while i am doing that
thanks a lot
@decent_attitude (220)
• India
7 Oct 08
If u r reserved than its quite good ....yet u can make many friends ....i am suggesting u the most appropriate method...
1.First of all join a social networking site www.orkut.com, hi5.com,facebook.com etc.
2. join the community of ur interest...
3. now play some verbal games over there with people for 5-10 min.
4. you are familiar with those people now try to interact with them..i hope u'll get to know their interest by their talks only
BY THIS YOU MAY MAKE FRIENDS OF UR CHOICE ....
you may also ask ur friend's friend to spent some time together since he/she is urs frnds's frnd umay get to know a more about everyone...
@hongqistreet (321)
• China
7 Oct 08
Hi,kaesta,are you new here?I'll add you as my friend.It's my forth day here.I've had some friends now.Here are some tips for me making friends here.
I posted a discussion to introduce myself on my first and ask some questions about mylot which confused me at that time.And mylotter here are very friendly and kind.They helped me with my questions and added me in their friend lists.So i think maybe you could introudce youself first.
@arpitaman (170)
• India
7 Oct 08
Hi buddy i used to a too much reserved too as a child
i lied in my home for 17 years and my neighbours hardly knew me,
But now i am fine infact one of the most popula kids in cclg.
I think most of the time u r shy because of inferiority comlplex, or high expectaions from others and insecurity of evealing your wekness to others.
I started going out with my class mates to parties , movies picnics, sportsmeets etc
as u get along with people at first u may feel shy but thats momentarily fithin a few minutes u will mix with them very well
But be sure u r choosing the right kind f frnds
Dont ever be hurt becaause shy people are very snesetive , tae every thing lightly
It's ur life n one is gonna help u
take ur first step and god will help u take the second
Good luck in life
@mformihir (50)
• India
7 Oct 08
Friends...
Somehow they are probably helpfull to resolve your problems..in today time the some people belive that friends are only for movies.parties and all other entertainment.
but as per i concern freinds must there when u are facing any problem in your life.
As per my personal view they always help you in your personal as well as the other matter.Even when your family can not help you the friends always be there and definately help..
we also know that we cant share everything with family so at that time the friends can minimising your all sorrows ...
So at the end friend must be ther in your life