You believe 'Once a cheater always a cheater'?

United States
October 7, 2008 9:33am CST
My boyfriend believes that once someone cheats, they are always a cheater...I don't believe this, I think some people grow up and learn from their mistakes...what's your opinion?
3 responses
@Shar1979 (2722)
• United States
7 Oct 08
nope, i dont believe in that at all. i do believe in giving second chances or more. if he's a repeater for the same mistake then that's the time that you have to ditch that person. you can not trust him anymore
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• Philippines
11 Oct 08
I believe it's a matter of second chances. I agree with you with growing up and learning from mistakes. But it's still up to how you grow up and learn from the mistake you made -- either the bad way or the good way. One may grow up good and learn to be honest and faithful, but yet another one may grow up worse and learn to be more cunning and deceitful. I'd say it's more like: if you cheat twice, you're a cheater for life.
@eneria (118)
• Philippines
9 Oct 08
hmm,. nah, i dont believe in that. when people made a mistake; its his/her decision whether he'll learn from that or simply ignore it. but for me, once you made a mistake you will then realized that it is wrong and then learn from it.