fixing a broken heart

October 7, 2008 2:04pm CST
me and my gf are having alot of trouble and i need help as we keep on arguing
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10 responses
• China
9 Oct 08
make your heart together no matter what you argue,Just in this way ,can you love deep each other!
• United States
8 Oct 08
My bf and I have our differences of opionion. I state mine and he states his, no arguing, just disagreeing. We are 2 separate people, so of course, we see things differently. It is just a matter of excepting the person for who they are and what they believe. If it is major issues, like how to raise children, religion, it will take talking and compromising, you have to meet somewhere in the middle. If you love each other you should both be willing to do this in a calm ration manner. If it is issues of cheating or one of you going out and getting drunk, to me there is no discussion or compromise, it is best to get out now..
@zeroflashx2 (2491)
• Philippines
8 Oct 08
Give yourselves some room first. I would really suggest that you have an intimate talk with your girlfriend about your relationship now and understand and accept each other. It would really be difficult if you are still arguing or if your emotions are still high. Talk when both your minds are clear. Initiate it when you see that both of you are already calm. Talk about your present situation and possibly where your relationship is headed. Don't worry too much though. Give your relationship a chance. Give yourselves some personal space as well. This is a test for your relationship. Do your best to win over it and your relationship would be stronger. I wish you the best my friend.
@joytang (43)
• Singapore
8 Oct 08
dun make it a habit to always argue. cos if u both argue often or have disagree too much ur relationship will be sour. i dun really believe that quarrel will add mood to the relationship. u n ur gf shld sit down calmly n talk heart to heart. bare out whatever is in both of ur hearts. do not keep things mumb. it wont help. at least to say to things out can iron things properly. best wishes to u
8 Oct 08
For me arguing is healthy as long as it is not excessive. It adds spice to a relationship. You get to see your differences and learn how to compromise. It only means that you both are being open to the realities of life. What matters most is you meet halfway and still find love after the argument.
@mcgUrL (3)
8 Oct 08
arguments are signs that relationship starts to grow, its part of the reality and when you can make it out with a good settlement through sparing each time for both of you to resolve the issue, then it can be a very good sign of maturity.. Goodluck!!
@underdogtoo (9579)
• Philippines
7 Oct 08
Arguing is good as long as each one keeps an open mind. It is the clash of ideas that bring your differences to the fore and it should be dealt with quickly and not glossed over for the sake of peace and harmony. Cheers!!
@jesbellaine (4139)
• Philippines
8 Oct 08
Hmmm... I think you two should talk about your relationship. Both of you must be willing to listen so you can figure out if there is something wrong with your relationship. Try to resolve it as much as possible... because if you always fight... it will not be a healthy and loving relationship, you will just end up hurting each other... Goodluck. Cheers!
• Philippines
7 Oct 08
you must love each other more that your differences,to keep your relationship going.it's normal to have fight for a normal relationship,but don't make it a hobby either.
@Shar1979 (2722)
• United States
7 Oct 08
you and your gf should first talk when you're both calm. you cant solve your problem if both of you are fighting or blaming each other. good luck :)