What is the first thing which attracts you to a person?

India
October 7, 2008 11:53pm CST
Is it his or her smile,eyes,face,voice,warmth,wit,intelligence or ??????????
12 responses
@alokn99 (5717)
• India
8 Oct 08
The inner beauty which is portrayed though the eyes,the smile ,the warmth, the voice and the first reactions of the person. The with and intelligence do have a role to play ,but leave their impression over a period of time.
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• India
8 Oct 08
The inner beauty ofcourse and its windows are eyes and the rest that follows.How true alokn. Lovely answer.Thanks.
• Philippines
8 Oct 08
physically...its his face and complexion... but for me what inside is more important so i go for a guy who is very kind and smart...that really attracts me..his intelligence!
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• India
9 Oct 08
And what kind of complexion that would be???? Fair or dark? Certainly the inner qualities are far more important.
• India
10 Oct 08
Yes,you are absolutely right sweet_melody.
• Philippines
10 Oct 08
...I am atrracted to guys with fair complexion....the mestiso type.....hahah...yes youre right that even if all the physical things were on the guy but his attitude was not that good....I will not like him....
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@carolbee (16230)
• United States
8 Oct 08
Yes, all of the above. It's hard to narrow it down to just one area in my case. I do like to meet a man who can look me directly in the eyes when he talks. Then he has my undivided attention. Since I am a female, I will notice a woman's hairdo or their friendly personality. Personality can carry a person a very long way.
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• India
9 Oct 08
A good personality is indeed a very important factor which can make a person tremendously attractive.
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
9 Oct 08
What atrracts me more is when I can really be me with the person, and I can discuss anything under the sun. Sometimes it's not the face or the warmth smile it's more on the same level of thinking, and learned more that I wont feel dull or bored. How about you? Have a nice day!
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• India
9 Oct 08
Yes,the comfort level which we share with a person is also very important.As for me, its more or less like what most people have mentined here----Kindness,intelligence,sense of humour and eyes--the reflection of one's soul.
@rocker21 (2716)
• India
8 Oct 08
her everything
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• India
9 Oct 08
oops
@bwaybaby (903)
• United States
8 Oct 08
In terms of physical traits, I tend to notice eyes first. Eyes, then smile. I love guys with gorgeous eyes. Overall, I tend to notice intelligence. I really could date a guy who wasn't very intelligent.
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• India
9 Oct 08
Gogeous eues.....hmmmmmmmm??
@balasri (26537)
• India
20 Oct 08
It is always the intelligence.I just cannot tolerate stupidity.
@jammyt (2818)
• Philippines
8 Oct 08
It's usually the sense of humor and how we get along. then the voice helps and I also usually look at the eyes. LOL!
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• India
8 Oct 08
Humor is the essence of a happy mind.Good choice there jammyt.
@elsoft12 (1821)
• India
8 Oct 08
For me ...Eyes,Smile and the sense of humour are the greatest assets for a person...which can make the person attractive.
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• India
8 Oct 08
sense of humour is one of the greatest attribute of personality.so true.
@patzel88 (3310)
• Philippines
8 Oct 08
i am attracted to the eyes and finger nails. the fae is only the second for me to attract a person.
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• India
8 Oct 08
eyes and Finger nails. wow
• Philippines
8 Oct 08
Her looks, smile, and intelligence. Of course first attraction would always be the looks(let's not deny it), smile is one of it too, And intelligence. I admire intelligent girls. It makes me wanna do my best. I tend to get challenge by intelligent girls. Happy posting!!
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• India
8 Oct 08
Very good.Very well put.Yes,intelligence motivates you to put in your best.
• China
8 Oct 08
The first thing i see is his or her stature and next is his or her face.
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• India
8 Oct 08
very nice.