Does Having lots Of Money ..the Most important Criteria for Happiness...??
By numerator
@numerator (66)
India
October 8, 2008 10:11am CST
i know u guys gonna say its not the most important thing ..its love , friends.. etc etc..but i do i believe at the end of the day .. what matters is Money .. having enough money helps u to be stress free about your bills , more comforts , a chance to vist exotic locations around the world , owning the best cars , afford the best of doctors if ur healths is bad... etc.. i agree that friends and family play a part in happiness but i again believe that the more money you have the better you get treated by friends and also family...
so whats your take on this ..?? do u think the same or do u differ....
2 responses
@bohemomma (45)
• United States
8 Oct 08
I don't think that having "lots" of money is important. I think having enough is; enough to have a roof over your head and food in your belly, (and that of you children)... There are so many ways a person can reduce the amount of money they need, but can a person be happy with little or no love?
@numerator (66)
• India
8 Oct 08
[i] .. well.. yes . there are many ways to reduce the amount of money one need . but that means you are compromising with ur happiness , with what you actually desire..
anyways thanxs for ur response bohemomma :) [/i]
@kg_gurl (220)
• United States
8 Oct 08
Hey numerator! I've said this before and I'll say it again and I'm sure I'll still say it many times more.
"Money isn't everything, but it sure does make life easier."
I do think that money helps a whole lot and that it is real nice to have lots of it. But I don't think that you should just focus your whole life making money or think of many ways to make more or earn more. I think that it really is nice to have a good job (where you can ear a lot) or put up a business to make more money but don't make your money making schemes that center of your life. Whenever I come across topics such as this, what comes to mind is this story or a lesson I've read a long time ago. It's a one liner that says, "A man sacrificed his health to make lots of money only to spend all of it in the end to have his good health back."
For me, money is not the main criteria for happiness, it's a means to happiness. If you have a lot of money but you don't use it except for paying the bills because you are afraid to spend it for the fear of running out, is really not the way to go for me. If you have money, spend it.. enjoy it for you surely have worked hard for it. For me, being able to do the things I want, with the people I care and having to go to places I used to only dream of going, having my family and friends close by and never having to worry about bills and mortgages is one way to happiness. And all this is because of having money. But this is just me. ~
@numerator (66)
• India
8 Oct 08
thanxs for ur response ..kg_gurl..:)..n nice one liner ... i'll remember that :)