Men Love a Good Gossip Too! Do you think so?

@marina321 (4556)
October 8, 2008 10:35am CST
Apparently whatever they might say, a study by a certain university has proved that men love a good gossip just as much as us girlies! According to this, men gossip too and it's not something that just the women or girls and housewives do.. What do you think? Is it true? Do men gossip too? I hate gossip of course but I will indulge my ears in a good gossip if I can't get away from it (e.g in the office..) as you do.. I can't help wondering how they carried out this study (maybe a survey, 'do you like to gossip?') and why? So, do you like to gossip? Do you reckon both species are prone to gossip and this is just something people do?
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25 responses
9 Oct 08
Hi marina321, It is a fact that men are worse then women, they spend a lot of time prening themselves and yes gossip, my husband sometimes have his mate over for coffee after a bike ride and I would be Mylotting and not paying that attention but I can hear them talking and what I hear is they are gossiping about someone at their bike club, yes they are sometimes worse then women. Tamara
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@marina321 (4556)
9 Oct 08
It is both members of the species, I have seen; I mean heard it in my office too, gossip about the bosses like the other myLotter said..
@roniroxas (10560)
• Philippines
9 Oct 08
yes they do. i have a lot of male friends and they love gossip. they are more interested on gossips than we women. i am in a band and have a lot of male friends and they like updates of gossips that happens. they said they are not gossip they are just concern YAH RIGHT!!! lol well that shows that they are only human
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@marina321 (4556)
9 Oct 08
they said they are not gossip they are just concern YAH RIGHT!!! Sounds like some of the moaners my ears have to put up with
@walijo2008 (4644)
• United States
9 Oct 08
I don't like gossip, and I try not to take part in it, but sometimes you can't help but overhear...lol. I think men may gossip sometimes, they probably talk about so and so, and they heard so and so did this or that, but I think its mostly about men things, like hunting or fishing discussions, you know so and so caught a 30 lb. catfish, stuff like that...lol. I know I've heard my husband talking to other men about such things.
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@marina321 (4556)
9 Oct 08
I think its mostly about men things, like hunting or fishing discussions love that bit..haha Interesting fishing and hunting discussions then! As many men don't fish or hunt, they do talk about so and so and this and that, like the ones I hear everyday
@magojordan (3252)
• Philippines
9 Oct 08
I love listening to stories but spreading gossip otherwise is a different thing. For me if it is something that is funny I listen to it but if it is about a person I really don't know about then I just don't listen at all.
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@marina321 (4556)
9 Oct 08
Yeah, some gossip is funny and deserves a good listen!
• United States
8 Oct 08
honey i worked in a chemical plant with over 300 men and let me tell you not only do they gossip but they are worse than women when they do
@marina321 (4556)
8 Oct 08
Uh-huh! Interesting.. I think it may be the blunt way they'd go about it, in a matter-of-fact manner I'm guessing
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@Shandy14 (71)
• United States
9 Oct 08
My opinion is that both enjoy gossip...Gossip can be like folk-lore...passed down from person to person. And it depends on what the person is gossiping about...Celebs, friends, family, neighborhood? Some gossip can be good being that it relates us on common interests...Such as what is going on in the world and who is doing what... All in all, a little bit of gossip, never hurt anybody... And I have a best friend who is a male...We both are equivilant when it comes to gossiping!
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@marina321 (4556)
11 Oct 08
All in all, a little bit of gossip, never hurt anybody... True that
@schulzie (4061)
• United States
11 Oct 08
Of course men love gossip just as much as women! They lie if they say they don't. They are just as nosy as we are. It is just human nature. My husband asks me what is up with people we know too. So, I don't believe it when men say they don't gossip. Have a great day and happy myLotting!!!
@cortjo73 (6498)
• United States
8 Oct 08
I do think that men like a good gossip too. They like to pretend that they are above it but, they still gossip too. Instead of gossiping about a neighbor, it might be about their boss. It could be about a family member. But, they do gossip. So, the next time a man in your life tells you he doesn't like gossip, laugh at him and ask him how his boss is. LOL!
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@marina321 (4556)
8 Oct 08
I sure will ask that question
@airl1527 (355)
• China
9 Oct 08
For every thing, we can't say "all the men or women like..." or "none...". My husband don't love to gossip and me, either. I think it's not right to gossip because when we gossip, we often talk about someone's secrets or sadness.
@marina321 (4556)
11 Oct 08
Some gossip is good or ok, some is bad..in my opinion
@maxilimian (3099)
• Indonesia
9 Oct 08
There's a different between gossip and reality story but i think men do the same things like women did sometimes
@marina321 (4556)
11 Oct 08
Think so too... they're good at pretending they don't
• Indonesia
13 Oct 08
Really? maybe yes hehe ....
@onlydia (2808)
• United States
10 Oct 08
Oh yes men love to gossip at my job. They are worse then us women as a matter of fact. You know that he said this and she said that. It is crazy. They alway's tell me I know everything and I really don't It's just when they come to me with it I just agree and say yes I heard that and your wrong. And then it stops right there. I would sooner talk about the weather or my kid or there kids. Other then the people that we work with. Your friend onlydia.
@iyah10 (4115)
• Kuwait
8 Oct 08
I am a man but I do loved to listen unto it and just talked to myself after hearing those gossip unto me is that woman he he he and never replied unto them back jand just leave it.
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@marina321 (4556)
8 Oct 08
haha! So you do admit that you listen too
@anne12d (676)
• Philippines
9 Oct 08
I think men loves a good gossip too especially when its about the girl they met or their basketball game or anything under a man's sun. LOLs... Anything about their cars and their friends car. They even engaged themselves to girly talk and adds their manly expertise upon the issue. I have guy friends who really listen to us girls' gossips. And when the manly in them gets in the way of the talk they speak out for their opinion and sake. I like having debate with a man and listening to gossip men does.
@marina321 (4556)
11 Oct 08
I agree, they do gossip too
• Malaysia
9 Oct 08
i think men love gossip too when it come to himself... for example, a male student want to know what the gurl talking and goossip about.. maybe about that guy.. whos know.. so, gossip also occur in men's life..
@marina321 (4556)
11 Oct 08
yeah interesting... I recall similar
@adoremay (2065)
• Philippines
11 Oct 08
I believe they are too, they just do it in a discreet way.
@guybrush (4658)
• Australia
9 Oct 08
I wish my husband loved a bit of a gossip (my friend's husband does, and comes home from work every day and tells her all sorts of interesting things!) but sadly, mine doesn't. He actually thinks it's wrong to pry into people's personal business, and doesn't want to know what his colleagues are up to. It's not that I want to talk about other people, but it would be nice to have a cosy chat. I certainly hate lies and rumours though, and won't get into that sort of thing.
@marina321 (4556)
11 Oct 08
Yeah, I think guys are good at gossiping about work mostly though some do talk about their friends too and that and this couple...
@soooobored (1184)
• United States
9 Oct 08
I am curious about this study, I've seen a lot that show women gossip more... Men certainly gossip, but not like women do. Do you have a link?
@Jasna88 (152)
• Serbia And Montenegro
13 Oct 08
Ofcourse they like it, maybe love it even! Not all of them ofcourse! Everybody loves to unwind and entertain themselfs sometimes, but that is not way many guys love to do it, but lots of them....yes. Talking about me, i dont like to gossip very much but i dont mind if i do! If its fun, if its farmless, everything is good :D
• Philippines
13 Oct 08
I hate gossip too. it depends to the person, there's a women that they like gossip everyday, others not also. Same there's a men do gossip, but others not too. So it depends.
@xzg555898 (210)
• China
12 Oct 08
at first ,we say women love a good gossip,it is true ,we can prove it,most women are fond of being quiet,and most men like to move ,when men move all the time he have no time to gossip,on the other hand ,our women have chance to gossip,but it is not absolutly,if men don not like move ,he may love goood gossip haha