Four girls, three younger sisters, and being the oldest.

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At times I feel like I have to be responsible for everything that goes on in my family's life. Don't you hate that?! Coming from an Asian culture, it's the eldest daughter's duty to keep the balance in the family. I'm an Americanized Korean and somewhat do not feel like I should be responsible for my 21 year old sister. She lives with me and doesn't lift a finger to help me out. It's irritating! Do you ever feel like you play the role of a mother/father for the sake of your sibling who's clearly old enough to take care of themselves?