Would YOU Do This?
@thebohemianheart (8827)
United States
October 8, 2008 2:15pm CST
Would you ever start a discussion just to help a friend with a dare? Would you consider this cheating? Do you think I should start one for the sole purpose of helping a friend?
What is your take on cheaters? Do you dare your friends to do things and then sit back and watch them to see if they do it?
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13 responses
@p1kef1sh (45681)
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8 Oct 08
Yes I would help if the "dare" was without malice and was meant in an affectionate manner. I have been dared both on myLot and elsewhere. I tend to carry it through. The picture of me in a bra on my profile page is one such example. However, if things start to take an unfortunate turn I would immediately go the aid of the struggling "victim". You have to be fair in such things and I hate to see people slowly drowning.
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@thebohemianheart (8827)
• United States
8 Oct 08
What's dribbling? What did I miss?
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@James72 (26790)
• Australia
8 Oct 08
I would never even CONSIDER taking part in such a farcical practice. The fact that you are even questioning such an act is a testament to your very character. This is a warm and friendly community of like minded people and not a breeding ground for misguided attempts at sociological experimentation. People end up hurt and emotionally scarred. When will others realize this?? I never would have expected something like this from you Bo. I thought that I knew you. I really did.....
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@thebohemianheart (8827)
• United States
8 Oct 08
I really wish you wouldn't use that tongue thinggie, it tickles!
Heehee
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@thebohemianheart (8827)
• United States
8 Oct 08
At least I will not be leaving a stain on my drawers
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@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
9 Oct 08
I have no friends..I work for myself and don't ever dare me..
@thebohemianheart (8827)
• United States
9 Oct 08
*Gagging sounds emanate from Bo's throat*
Get a room, you two!
@leenie50 (3992)
• United States
8 Oct 08
bo,
I don't believe I would join in on a dare. This notion takes me back to teenhood. Even then dares were risky business in my opinion. Of course you have to understand that I was born with a yellow streak down my spine. If there was the slightest chance of a negative outcome, I scadoodled.
leenie
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@thebohemianheart (8827)
• United States
9 Oct 08
leenie, very rarely do I actually START anything. I am usually behind someone else, watching and giggling, and egging on the person being dared. I wouldn't be behind anything that would intentionally hurt anyone, or come to a bad end. Sometimes the little kid in me just peeks her head out and I can't quite get her reigned back in*S*
@Opal26 (17679)
• United States
9 Oct 08
Hey bo! Sure I would! I had a girlfriend dare me to
something not that long ago and of course I did it!
It really wasn't anything that bad. It was just to
say something in front of a room full of people and
she didn't think that I had the nerve to say it and
I did! I would probably take the dare as long as it
wasn't anything too weird or as long as it wasn't
going to hurt anyone or hurt anyone that I cared
about. As for cheating, that would all depend on
what you call cheating. I don't mind bending the rules
for a good cause!
@thebohemianheart (8827)
• United States
9 Oct 08
Well, I am not sure this discussion is cheating, we will just have to see.
As I said above, I am usually in the background egging things on, but, today, I just couldn't help myself.
@thebohemianheart (8827)
• United States
8 Oct 08
Sheepie, honey, that is called nagging.
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@twoey68 (13627)
• United States
10 Oct 08
I think if I could choose the discussion topic I would...I'd pick something that I wanted to know about anyways. I wouldn't start one based on a lie for a dare or anything else. It makes me think about the discussion a guy started about how he was having s*x with his older aunt and should he use protection. It just sounded way too far fetched.
[b]~~IN SEARCH OF PEACE WITHIN~~
**AGAINST THE STORMS, I WILL STAND STRONG** [/b]
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@thebohemianheart (8827)
• United States
10 Oct 08
Yeah, I heard about all those posts. This one is just a silly discussion that involved a harmless dare. It is over, no one was hurt, and we got some giggles.
Thanks for responding*S*
@littleowl (7157)
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11 Oct 08
I would never do that, and don't like cheaters at the best of times..what is the use of it those things like cheating and cheating are stupid childish games..littleowl
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@thebohemianheart (8827)
• United States
11 Oct 08
*Winks at littleowl*
There was no cheating, it was kind of just for fun.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
9 Oct 08
hi bohemianheart no indeed i dislike cheating and cheaters
I would not start a discussion solely to help a friend.let
'your friend start her own. I cannot condone cheating for
any reason as it is still cheating. I dont dare my friends to dol things as I dislike that idea very much.
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@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
9 Oct 08
Hmm, well I don't know exactly what your talking about as this is vague and I haven't read many of your other discussions or responses, but I trust Irishfriendly, so, lol, go on and help a friend out.
Oh yea, and I wouldn't say that starting a discussion is cheating as long a validity is involved....
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@thebohemianheart (8827)
• United States
9 Oct 08
It is rather vague, at the moment, isn't it? And, I am not sure it has a lot of validity. It was just something that seemed like a good idea, at the time.*S*
@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
10 Oct 08
Ah the best ideas are the ones on impulse, you get to spend the next day in the slammer next to your accomplice saying "let's do it again!"
or however that goes.. lol.
@RDugas (247)
• United States
9 Oct 08
I dont think posting a valid discussion would be cheating, but I dont see how that would help a friend out. I think cheating is wrong just because it doesnt give a fair chance to those who are honest. I may dare friends to do things just for laughs but I would never suggest anything that would cause them or any other person harm.
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@thebohemianheart (8827)
• United States
9 Oct 08
Well, RDugas, there were only three people involved, and in a way, nobody was really going to lose, anyway. It was just amongst friends and......well, this was just a stupid discussion for the sake of the dare.*S*
Thanks for replying, though.
@wong89138 (50)
• Canada
13 Oct 08
I'm not even sure what we're talking about here, lol.
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@thebohemianheart (8827)
• United States
13 Oct 08
That's ok, most people responding didn't really know either. It was kind of a joke, concerning a challenge issued to a friend.
Welcome to my lot. Have fun.