Premarital S E X is a SIN!

Agree! There is no such problem if you just do not believe in its existence, and do everything the way you feel right.

Its only a sin if you believe so! If you are a christian then you will be made to believe that it IS a sin. Its stupid, its not a sin at all in my opinion. I do not believe in jesus therfor I do not believe its a sin. Forget about other peoples stupid old beliefs and go and figure it for yourself. Itll be much more fun and you'll probably find your own meaning out of it all, which will probably make you alot happier. Good luck. Pawnee

it is a sin, and for you that do not beleive in Jesus when you go to hell, i want to see if you beleive in him then!! and since you do not believe in sin, i have a scenario for you, what if a someone murdered someone very close to you, what will you call that? SIN!!! but.... since you do not believe in sin , you see that the person who mrdered someone close to you is not guilty?

i think sin is when you disobey something, i dint really know, lol. now it leaves another question on my mind. thanks for the response.

'Disobey' implies rules ... 'Thou shalt not ...' and all that. As I have implied, rules are good, to a point. They give us guidance until we find our own standing with God. In my view, 'sin' is not about rules (or disobeying them). It's about following the path that WE think is best rather than the one that HE is always ready to show us. Sometimes we are just not attuned to hear Him (it's as if we have our GPS switched off) and we follow our own path, sometimes we consciously reject what we know is the recommended way. I'm sure you have experience of both in your relationship with your parents ... we all do things honestly which were really not 'wise' and we have all consciously done things simply because they were contrary. If we have good parents, they have usually forgiven us. God is the best parent, of course. He is always waiting for us to catch up at the end of whatever path we chose. He is usually ready to say, "Well, that was the path you chose. How did you like it?" ... and if we learned something (even if it was by falling in the mud), to smile and bless our choice for the teaching it gave us. 'Sin' is simply going another way than the one recommended. It is in our nature (and I almost believe that we were created to 'sin' because otherwise, how would we learn the difference between dark and light?) Whether we come to a realisation of God through Christianity, Islam, Hinduism, Jain, Sikhism, Ba'hai, Tao or even Buddhism (which sees no 'God'), we all face the same Light and encounter the same Love and we all have the same experience of turning away from it, either because it is too bright or simply because we want to know what it is like to do it 'our' way (that is what 'being made in God's image' is partly about).

I notice that I have said nothing about 'forgiveness'. English is a strange language and, even though many people don't realise it, 'remembers' its roots. The word 'forgive' has the word 'give' as its main part. God, essentially, gives us his Love, freely and unwithheld. The suffix 'for-' means something like “away,” “off,” “to the uttermost,” “extremely,” (and sometimes “wrongly”). We find it, too, in words like 'forbid', 'forbear', and 'forswear'. It sometimes gets confused with 'fore-', meaning 'something happening before', as in 'forewarned'. I think that 'forgiveness' really can be taken to mean a little of both. God gives to the uttermost and 'before' we have even asked or expected. In other words, before we have 'sinned' (and even as we do so by making that choice to go our own way) His hand is there, reaching out, even as our fingers part.

i totally agree with you, i think they created marriage before just to assure the love and bond between the couples. thank you for your comment, but i really need more answers:(