Does Your Boyfriend Carry Your Handbag When You Go Out?

My BF will hold my bag for me if I need him to, but it is not something I would usually ask of him. I would generally only ask if I needed both my hands free to putting on a coat or something. I do think it is sweet when guys are willing to hold their woman's purse; it has an "old married couple" vibe to it that I like. However, my BF does look a bit (sweetly) akward when he does it, so I do not take advantage.

well yeah my ex bf would do that to me. my husband don't do. lol. he's a gentleman in many other ways but he dont carry my purse lol he'd carry my backpack and put it in the car though lol

hi myliez you made me laugh just now as I used to do that a lot with my husband and he would get this really funny look on his face. He never complained, in fact he often asked to carry it if it was really heavy but yet he had this look on his face like duh what do I do now? I used to laugh at him, then he would laugh too, oh I do miss that laugh o f his and I have been a widow since `1991. I think its sweet of him as he does care for you,its okay really and if someone says something tell them to mind their own business. thanks for a chuckle and a laugh.

My husband is rarely embarrassed about ANYTHING. He makes jokes about my purse when he is carrying it. He usually ends up embarrassing me and not himself. We are opposites in this way.

I dont like the idea of any boyfriend carrying the girlfriend's bag. I think in the first place if the girl wants to bring the bag out she ought to carry it by herself. a bag is a accessory itself on the girl. Probably if the bag is unisex i see why not the bf carry it for the girl if the bag is heavy. Its looks kind of weird that the guy carry the bag for the girl, it may seem kind of sweet but overall the guy has his pride too. I guess different people different opinion.

Well before I was married I never had my boyfriend carry my bag, but if I was looking at clothes or something I always handed him my purse. It never bothered him because it wasn't like he put it on his shoulder like I did so it didn'y seem wierd. Now that we are married he will still do it for me and I think it is sweet. If you have a man that is comfortable with himself and knows that a handbag isn't going to make him any less of a man then let him flant it honey.

when i see a boy holding his GF's bag. I found them CUTE and sweet. and if my boyfriend ask me that he would like to carry my bag. i feel like he totally cares for me that he wouldn't like me to get tired. :D i don't force my boyfriend to carry my bag specially when it is heavy i let him volunteer. And i would know how he cares for me. :D

lol too cute...I can never see my guy carring a hand bag...he does if I have to get my picture done or something like that...like he holds it for me, but to carry it if we were walking then no...but I carry his wallet and car keys in my purse from time to time... Happy mylotting

Yes I believe that when man wants to carry our bag, it means that they care for us. It is another way of showing that they don't want us- ladies, to carry bags, especially if its obviously heavy. I also think that it is a way of impressing us, you know, male and they masculine side. Personally speaking, I appreciate my boyfriend if he ask me to carry my bag, I allowed him couple of times, because honestly, it's kinda cute for me. But you know, it does not make me feel comfortable. I guess my bags are so lady like that it does not look good on him. I hate other people seeing him looking odd. I don't want that- he is my boyfriend:) So i told him what I felt about it and he understands. Since then, what he carries are my extra stuff- like if I have other stuff to carry aside from my personal bag- and I appreciate that even more. I think bags adds a touch to a woman's outfit, it makes her extra pretty. And it's her's... not his. Thank you for your post.:)

Yeah If there wil be sometihing heavy then I will with me only but something light in my hand then i will give it to my girlfriend

hi, no. i can't seem to get him to do that, lol. he always say a handbag is made for women to hold/carry only. i think he will do it if no one is around ( even then it would take alot to get him to do it ). so i just stopped asking him.

I don't allow my handbag to be carried by my Spouse because I feel he would look funny if he is carrying a woman's handbag while walking. But when I'm carrying another bag like shopping bag or any bag that is heavy, other than my handbag, my spouse automatically gets that bag from me. A man should be caring enough to do that. I understand if your boyfriend would carry even your handbag if it looks too heavy for you. He must be really so caring and so sweet. I have nothing against another man doing it, I just don't like it on my husband so I never carry a heavy handbag to avoid it.

nope. i don't let him carry my bag... i would feel discomfited to be walking beside him carrying my girly bag. i don't want him to look funny...

I am a man.Maybe I carry my girlfriend handbag.Mostly, my answer is say no cause it is awkward.If you dont want carry handbag,you shouldn't take it with you.

yes!!hehe well, it's because i always bring with me big bags that's quite heavy and he wants to carry it for me.. i find the gesture sweet because he is being very thoughful.. he knows my bag is heavy and it really is.. with my big perfume, umbrella, some novels, beauty kid, ballpens, etc, etc inside it.. it should be heavy..hehehe i love the way he carry my bag for me.. it's a little gesture of thoughtfulness as i see it!

no he doesnt carry my handbag and i dont want too.

Lol Err... No.. It might be sweet to some people, and disgusting to others. Personally, I won't let my boyfriend carry my handbag. I will feel super embarrassed to be walking beside a guy carrying a girl's bag. And somehow or rather, I would feel disgusted. There are many love languages and apparantly you take service language as a form of expression of love and caringness. To me, that's not the case. I take the soul connection, the sharing of dreams of ideals, walking along the same line and supporting one another in terms of hardship and sharing the sweetness of success as love and caringness. It's okay for me to see other guys carrying their girlfriend's bag.. but in my own relationship, it is not okay for me to see my boyfriend carrying my bag. That's the bottom line. Lol.

Yeah... me too. I think it's cute. A guy carrying a ladies' bag. But I think it's their way of saying : I love you and I'm proud to be with you! . You're a lucky girl

i dun do it. when i was dating, i do not carry handbags for my gfs. neither do i do so for my wife now. u can call me a mcp but i believe that a handbag is essentially a personal item that one should be responsible for. i do not feel right when the lady is handsfree while the man carry her bag. i would carrt and do mind carrying shopping bags or other stuffs but handbag is a strict no for me. some may think that it is sweet for a man to do it but there are other things that can be sweet as well.

i am not a girl.but we should carry your bags if you feel heavy