what annoys you about other people?
By jhl930
@jhl930 (3601)
United States
October 9, 2008 7:02pm CST
in todays world i think we have all saw that people have changed, and not always for the good either, and one of the things that really annoys me is when people are rude, like if they bump into you or something like that they don't say anything like i'm sorry or anything like that and its like they are too busy wrapped up in themselves to take the time to talk to you or see how you are doing, like when you say hey as you pass someone on the street you don't even get a hey or hi back...thats one thing that nanoys me is when people are really rude...so is there anything that annoys you? i would like to thank you for taking the time out of your day to come by and read and review my discussion and hopefully answer, i hope that you all have had a great day so far and that you have a great and safe evening today, thanks again for taking the time to come by...
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@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
10 Oct 08
It anoys me if a person is so selfish. I mean one who thinks nothing good of others but himself. He wants to get all things for himself unmindful of other people who also need some good share. I hate a person who never mind if others will be affected for as long as he gets what he wants. A selfish person loves himself only. I think he will never be a good friend so I shun this kind of person.
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@shirdimanju (40)
• India
10 Oct 08
i will anoy about other people when they dont look friendly and try to hurt others
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@shamsta19 (3224)
• United States
10 Oct 08
You opened a can of worms on this one! I think I am a pretty easygoing person. Definently easy to get along with. There are certain character traits that bug the heck out of me though. Here's a few:
1. I hate loud people! You know the ones that have to be the center of attention in every conversation or situation. They think they know everything about everything and they usually know the least. Just loud for no reason at all.
2. I hate disrespectful people. Kind of fits in with number one. If someone is talking you let them talk then respond. You don't cut them off mid sentence and shoot them down before they finish their thought.
3. I hate ignorant people. Now some people can't help it but some people are still trapped in the dark ages. I am not judging anyone but it's 2008 read some books. How can people just stay in their little boxes and never explore the world around them? Then we wonder why there is racism? We aren't taking the time to learn new things.
4. I hate an irritable person. Someone who is in a bad mood ALL THE TIME!!! I mean if you are in a good mood they are the buzz kill you know. They can ruin any morning and are set off by the simplest of things. It's like they hate to see you happy if the focus isn't on their misery. And when they are miserable, you have to be too. Just makes life unbearable. And then they don't even know how to have fun in the first place so you can't do anything with them to make them happy.
5. I hate people who cant be themselves. They want to put on airs around their friends or certain groups of people that they normally wouldn't. Just fronting you know for no reason. Liars.
6. People that are close talkers annoy me too. You know the guy that has to get close enough to kiss every time he talks to you, or wants to touch you constantly. Can't stand that.
7. Ever eat with someone who smacks when they chew? UUGGHH! I hate that too!!!
8. Greedy people tick me off too. I mean someone who takes advantage of your kindness and keeps demanding more and more from you. And they give nothing in return!!!!
I could probably think of some more but off top of my head these things really make me mad!!
@belk89 (1103)
• Philippines
10 Oct 08
Rude people are everywhere and yes it annoys me as well. One of the things that i dont also like are arrogant and racist people. They think they are better than anybody else. But the truth is they are just a bunch of losers. I dont understand why treated other people badly just because of the color of there skin. They never realized those people are much educated and successful than they are. And just because they are different they will treat them bad. I believe that everyone is equal no matter what status in life you have or what color of your skin. We should treat each other with respect.
@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
10 Oct 08
The most annoying habit is being dominating and controlling other people's actions.i have seen people do it time again to others who are meek or for some reason at their mercy.This is extremely annoying.Such people have a habit of dominating all conversation, trying to mould opinions to suit them and are generally a great nuisance..
@eshow1990 (98)
• China
11 Oct 08
Now i'm at shcool,so every morning we should brush teeth together at the public place.sometimes people spray the water out and even on my face,that's really made me made,that really not good at all.
what's more,i really feel crazy when being stepped on by others but not recieve a pologise even look at me in an odd eyesight,what are they thingking about??
ang queujumpers are annoying too.
@annjilena (5618)
• United States
10 Oct 08
what annoys me is when they ,re picking their nose and think no one is looking.are they will pull there panties out there behind and think no one is looking people are always looking these are something that should never be done in public it,s just nasty.i am annoy when they step on my foot and don,t say iam sorry.
@robert19ph (4577)
• Philippines
10 Oct 08
hello jhl930,
what annoys me about other people is that when I'm doing my best to my job and the bosses are not fair enough to everybody - have favoritism. One thing more is when other people is acting as if I was the one who owes them where in fact they're the one who borrows something from me. For I was the one who is begging to pay me and that they don't even care.
@argie713 (1809)
• Philippines
10 Oct 08
I really don't like selfish and arrogant people. They always irritate me especially when I see one. I also don't like people who are pretenders. I really hate those guys. I don't know why they are like that. To avoid being judgmental, I just don't mind them and avoid being their friend.
@Bethany1202 (3431)
• United States
10 Oct 08
Bad manners and rudeness annoy me as well. I like when people are polite by saying please, thank you, sir, and ma'am... No matter what the age. When people hold the door for those walking behind them... That sort of thing is nice.
I HATE when people are rude. For example, one of my pet peeves is when people won't set their cell phone down...
I work at a bank and it's very hard to conduct a transaction, especially when you have to ask them questions about something or get their attention because they forgot to sign their check, when they are talking on their phone. We actually even have about 4 signs asking customers not to use their cell phones in the bank but they still do.
I see people always on their phone when they are getting rung up at the grocery store and other places and I think it's very rude! An emergency is one thing but to talk for 10 minutes in a loud tone and not even acknowledge the person saying hello to you ringing up your purchases -- I just can't stand that behavior!!
@catmint (628)
• Singapore
10 Oct 08
I agree with many of you on this thread, rudeness has stopped being the sole right of the uneducated, infact the better educated one is, the more unlikely he or she will be crowned Mr. or Ms. Humanity.
But the group that gets to me these days are the younger generations. They have the privilege of not having old-fashioned moral education nor are they surrounded by peers or adults who know how to conduct themselves properly. This gives them the ticket to become destructive, crass opportunitists.
The thought of growing old in a society filled with people like that send shivers down my spine.
@amlegend (945)
• Pakistan
10 Oct 08
i can withstand all but when people misunderstand me i can't bare it and i try all my best to make them understand my point and usually this leads to an argument and i am always ready for it if i know and believe that i am correct and i will be the first to admit my mistake if i do one. sometimes this is not helping the cause and makes others angry at me and usually then i make a decision to either go ahead with it or take a silent approach.
@ByblosFlare (198)
• Australia
10 Oct 08
hi there jhl, hmm...i agree with everything you have said, but everything bad enoys me, there isnt just one thing but most of the things i would name would be about quality, orht equalities of a person. I dont like the bossy or selfish type of people the most though. That can also include being rude. But bossy people really get to me, i am indipendant and i wouldnt like to be pushed around. But bottom line is, i dont like the bad qualities, which at the end could be a lot of things and are diffrent to each people.
Happy MyLotting!
@Avi_Gan (191)
• Philippines
10 Oct 08
What annoys me most about a person is when that person is too full of themselves. They think they know everything, that their opinions are the only ones that matter. They basically think that the world revolves only around them. I hate them! Especially the male versions... aaargghhh.. I used to have this cause that every time I meet somebody like this I just have to knock him down a peg or two. Hehehehe... But when I met my husband, I totally mellowed down. When I met his friends and some of them are acting all high and mighty and making inane and asinine remarks, I just ignore them and laugh secretly at their stupidity and ignorance... :)
@narayan2006 (2954)
• India
10 Oct 08
I do not normally get irritated at others while they behave differently,not suiting my expectations and desires. I do always believe that we need to take the responsibility on ourselves about the responses we receive from others around,as these are nothing but the reflections or the returns of what we have given to others on many occasions either knowingly or unintentionally.Every action has an equal and opposite reaction.I do strongly believe in the natural law of cause and effect and never mind so much on what I receive, rather I consider it as the fruit of my own action and behaviour. Thanks.
@underdogtoo (9579)
• Philippines
10 Oct 08
It is very difficult for me to be annoyed with people. I am very tolerant and I allow people the privilege of being themselves instead of being what I want them to be. I observe and am often amused by foibles but this is not my thing. I know everyone tries and I have hopes that everyone will rise and be raised. Cheers!!
@bfarrier1 (2082)
• United States
10 Oct 08
I would have to agree with you on the rudeness of people today,also there is alot of hateful people too,even the ones that check you out at the stores can be rude,hateful people I always think about asking for the manager when I am treated this away but I stop and think about it and I wouldnt want to see someone lose their job,so I just smile my usual smile and tell them to have a nice day while biting my tongue.I get in bad moods too but I dont get rude and hateful to others I general just get by myself until my mood changes,The world is going to see that everyone needs each other real soon I have a feeling so we should be nice to people we are all human beings.You have a great night.
@zeroflashx2 (2491)
• Philippines
10 Oct 08
I really like being with lots of people however, there's one trait that I really do not appreciate. I don't like a few people who only think about themselves what they want, when they want it, where they want it. It's fine actually but when they start to step on other people, that when I start to get stingy. Most likely they do not see the big picture yet and I get to them somehow.
@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
10 Oct 08
lack of manners annoys me & that is quite prevalent nowadays. it all begins at home & if the children are not taught manners it always shows up in later life.i feel the same about respect. if you don't teach your children to respect you when they are small they want have respect for anyone as they get older. it's sad the way people grow up.
@celticeagle (168523)
• Boise, Idaho
10 Oct 08
People who are talking on their cell phones while driving and make you wait for them because of it! People who are discurteous or rude. People who are selfish and idiotic. People who are in the job of customer support and are discurteous, rude, act overly hurried or put out with you.