Uneducated, Undereducated = Rudeness ?!?

United States
October 10, 2008 7:03am CST
Oh my, I was going back this morning, answering comments on one of my posts about people being rude to cashiers and some over-educated person actually had the nerve to say more or less that an uneducated or less educated person is ruder because of lack of education. Do you feel that way, do you think someone having a degree makes them more respectful and that someone who didn't go to college for whatever reason automatically makes them ruder?
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@twoey68 (13627)
• United States
20 Feb 09
Just recently I watched an episode of Wife Swap on the net and a wife from Missouri switched with a wife from New York...the Missouri family was average income, average educated and had no degrees while the New York family was very high income, well educated and had many degrees. While the husband in Missouri was for the most part polite and tolerant of the high class wife from New York the high class husband in New York was mean and hateful to the Missouri wife. He belittled her, insulted her, made fun of her and even got his kids to quit speaking to her. So no, having degrees, a better education or money doesn't make you a better person...manners are what show the type of person you are. [b]**AT PEACE WITHIN** ~~STAND STRONG IN YOUR BELIEFS~~[/b]
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• Philippines
1 Mar 09
I saw that episode on youtube! It was after I read a recent posting in another site about it. I got curious and looked. It was horrifying to see how Stephen Fowler, an "educated" man, could spew such uncouth and vile words! Maybe he is an intellectual but he sure was not raised to have good manners. So yeah, education is worthless if a person didn't learn how to be a human being first.
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• Philippines
1 Mar 09
Gosh, definitely no! I have dealt before with a college professor who was considered a genius in her field. When I respectfully asked her via email if I could interview her for an article I was writing, her reply was so rude that my editor had a fit! The reality is, there are both kinds of people (rude and polite) in both ends of the spectrum (educated and under educated). I believe it will always depend on how people were raised, not on the kind of schooling they had.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
4 Sep 12
loreli I have seen some very educated people be very rude and if well educated and rich some think they own the earth,.so I do not think that uneducated people are ruder than ed ucated peole. manners starts at childhoor and if the parents regardless of incone iof schooling are well mannered and teach their children to be well mannered and care about others.so income and schooling have damned little to do with well mannered people.
@granmeme (162)
• United States
10 Oct 08
I cannot see where the amount of education a person has matters when it comes to manners. Even if we do not have any education at all and could not read we would still be able to have manners. We can learn from observing other people's actions by watching TV. By asking people what appropriate behavior is. Their is a lot of things people can do to improve themselves without a lot of education. All a person needs is a little intelligence and a desire to do so. I do not like to see anyone run down because of their lack of a formal education a lot of us do not have higher degrees and I feel our manners can be as good as a higher educated person.
• United States
12 Oct 08
Thank you thank you thank you! I think he just proved that point clearly, I agree with you and also think that lots of people with that higher education lose their common sense and sometimes even common decency.
@ourfff (64)
• China
10 Oct 08
People will adapt their environment.It will make them change.Obviously,college can offer a elegant circumstance.i think it decide the manners of person.
• United States
10 Oct 08
I think respect and manners come more from upbringing, if you are taught them as a child, you are more apt to use them as an adult.
• Philippines
23 Feb 09
no, how you were raised by your parents, and the people around you affects your behavior and it does not matter if you finished school or not. i've met people who finished school but are still rude to others, disrespectful and arrogant. and i've met people who did not finish school but has nice manners.
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• United States
24 Nov 08
Being educated has nothing to do with how rude someone is. Every teacher I ever had was "educated" and they were some of the rudest people I've ever had the displeasure of coming in contact with.